u/1sthomehelp

I know that this is a topic that has been talked about over and over, but after this Megan/Klay break up, a lot of ppl are speaking out.

I've even had a discussion with a man who told me that women should "pick better" and if ppl talk shit about all men, that includes your sons too.

I'm sick of ppl trying to blame the women after we get swindled, duped, and bamboozled by a man. I've said this before in a comment in another sub, and my views are still the same. I agree with Summer, but unfortunately, ppl in the comments of this post on Facebook are saying "right message, wrong messenger". Does it matter who says it??? A lot of us have been through this. Summer is speaking the truth here.

Bringing up someone's past and how many ppl they have dated and had sex with is null and void in this conversation. I'm not staying with any man who would intentionally hurt my feelings or jeopardize my health, so if that means I have to find a new one, I will. It doesn't have to be right away, but if that's what I want, I have the free will to do it. We get blamed for everything and get the scarlet letter of shame for not taking any shit when we leave. It's sickening.