hi! i, 28F, have been single most of my life. i’m talking like 99% and have never had a serious relationship.
this past weekend i went on a second date with a guy. then he told me he’s feeling more of a friend connection.
this happens to me a lot. people say “i’m don’t feel a spark” “im not feeling a connection” “this is giving more of a friend vibe” and i don’t know what to do anymore.
am i supposed to kiss them after the first date to let them know that i don’t just want to “be friends?” (i don’t kiss ppl on the first date anymore bc that usually led to bad decisions.) all of my profiles say im looking for a long term relationship. so what am i doing wrong? how do i get people to stop seeing me as a “platonic” or “a friend?” i mean i thought you were supposed to be ~nice~ to the person you’re dating but maybe not?
i also just want to know why this keeps happening? is there something wrong with me? also i do believe you should be friends with the person you’re una. relationship with and actually like them as a person, but that’s not the ONLY thing i want.
help! how do i get this to stop happening? and get someone to take me seriously as a romantic partner.