I’m going through a lot of emotions… because this just happened. Me and my fiancé were talking in bed, and all of a sudden he stopped talking and said, my friends told me that i should tell you this…. That you have the right to know. Confused i looked at him and I was mentally preparing for the worst. But i still wasn’t expecting him to say what he said. He said he had a 10 year old child with a woman I already had some issues with because he never explained why he had her contact in his phone. So it ended with him having to delete her contact. But now I find out it’s this kids baby mama and that makes things so much worse. We had big plans on him finally moving in with me and now I just don’t even know if I feel comfortable with him anymore. I want kids and a life with him. But now thinking about it just makes me feel gross. Especially when he says he wants to still be a part of his original kids life, I don’t know if it makes me look bad but I don’t want that. I want to have him all to our families life if we have kids.
What would you do… i just need opinions and clarity..