AIO
I had a near death experience or at least thought I was due to a medical induce issue. All is well. My wife cannot seem to keep her mouth shut with telling her friends details about me that she knows I’d be upset about others knowing. I don’t do any Meta social media, don’t hang out with too many people and overall am reclusive unless I have to be social at work. She causally tells me she told her friend about the situation and carried on like nothing happened. I told her she was in the wrong and she tried to gaslight me into retracting. For the last few weeks I only say the bare minimum required and even keep the details of my doctor visits to myself. I had a doctor visit today and the moment I walked in she asked me how things went with me simply replying ok. She responded by telling me I’m in a bad mood and she’s trying to be in a good mood and walked out of the house to run errands . This has been an issue for close to 20 years now and I’m fed up with asking for her not to overshare MY details. My solution is to not tell her anything I don’t want repeated and now she’s upset with me, even though this is a topic touched on for close to 20 years. AM I OVERREACTING?