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Boyfriend’s size doesn’t allow for certain positions

We’ve been making love for a little over a year, and everything is wonderful except for the fact that we can’t do certain positions most of the time or at all because it hurts for me. He’s around 7-8 inches, and I’ve been taking birth control for health reasons since before we got together, and it made me have some vaginal dryness, but we use lots of lube every time. It’s also not because I’m not relaxed enough, as he makes me finish 3-5 times before penetration and a total of around 10-15 times throughout.

I wanted to know if anyone else experienced not being able to have sex in certain positions because it hurts (for example I can’t do doggy if he goes in fully, or me being on top means he has to support me so I don’t sit on it fully, or any other position where his torso is more than 70-80 degrees away from mine)

If you did experience something similar, did it go away with time, or does it never change?

I’d just like to have sex with the love of my life in any position I want, and not experience sharp pain in 80% of all sexual positions.

Edit: Sorry for upsetting anyone, idk how sex is supposed to be or what the reality is for everyone. My bf is my first and last, and I’m usually the only one of my friend groups to have lost her virginity. So im always being asked about sex and tips, but don’t really have anyone to ask myself until this Reddit post.

Thanks to everyone for the advice, I have read all the comments and appreciate you sharing your experiences and kind words🫶 Really helped a lot

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u/172747 — 5 days ago