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You might remember me posting a few weeks ago about a breakup due to relapse & wanting the other side's perspective (I removed it for fear of being searched) I ended up back in contact & spending quality time with the Ex. Their idea. We are going to continue an activity we did while together once weekly for a while with some quality time afterwards.

How the hell do I rebuild trust without performing? My secular treatment plan is aggressive & I am doing multiple meetings a week (AA & An Alternative) + I have reconnected with my old sponsor.

I'm dealing with someone who's words & actions aren't completely aligning & I know it is not because of manipulation but because of fear & lack of trust + non-codependent attachment.