u/0ldyellowbrick

Treba li vam organizator putovanja?

Pozdrav, primjećujem da se dosta ljudi zgražava na organizaciju/planiranje putovanja. Ja baš uživam u tome. Svako putovanje na koje idem organiziram sama. U dane, nekad i sate.

Nikad nisam uzimala usluge turističke agencije. Odbija me to što su uglavnom sve na isti kalup. Putovanje u velikim grupama s vodičima koji hodaju s nama mi nije privlačno.

Bi li vas zanimale usluge personaliziranih digitalnih vodiča? Nešto što bi funkcioniralo na principu da kažeš gdje ideš, koliko dana, i ako te nešto specifično zanima ili ne zanima.

Inače imam karijernu krizu. Razmišljam o prelasku iz IT u turistički sektor pa me zanima ima li poslovnih prilika u putovanjima.

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I 25F am worried about my relationship with 25M. I wonder if he's too deep in porn and should I end it.

He's a raging porn addict (says so himself). Says he doesn't feel the need for sex. Porn and masturbation is easier for him.

He's been given plenty of second chances. I offered everything I could to help and he doesn't want any help. He tries stopping himself - it works for a while until it doesn't and he's goes back to porn.

This has been going on for years. I've lost my patience.

Says he feels bad after jerking off in a sense that "it's a waste of time". That sounds like a "holier that thou" attitude to me.

It has come to a point where I don't even believe when he says he's attracted to me.

He only wants sex once a month but jerks off regulary to porn. If this has been going on for years, is he even trying to quit it?

And he said when he stops for a while and then relapses,  that it's just easier for him to continue doing that and that he doesn't wanna talk to me about it.

How long is too long? How many chances is too many chances?

Edit: I'm 25F and he's 25M

I've been with my bf for years. At first I noticed he stopped initiating sex, I knew something was up but he didn't wanna say. I knew in my gut it was porn. I tried reasoning with him but he didn't see it as a problem. I tried breaking up a few times because I wasn't sexually satisfied and every time he'd beg me to stay and that he'd fix it. He admitted to porn addiction 2 years ago and he's been working on fixing it ever since. He tried stopping altogether, tried only watching it once a week, tried fantasies in his head. All were just temporary fixes. He always goes back to porn.

I'm a girl so the trans and gay porn confused me and he admitted to being bisexual too. So I thought maybe he just doesn't want a girl right now, and he said it's not that. I tried to ask for him to include me in that part of his life but he think that's unnecessary since he "doesn't do that stuff often anyways".

At this point he doesn't feel the need for sex at all. He's fine having sex once a month, but masturbates regularly. He doesn't care when I'm horny.

Today I literally asked him what's the issue since I offered different poses and different sex toys and I've been very accepting. And he says all of that is fine, the sex feels great for him but watching porn and jerking off is easier. That's why he rarely wants sex. What the fuck is that explanation?

Dolazimo iz HR za vikend bas kad je prvi maj pa me zanima jel ima ikojih trgovina i restorana koji ce biti otvoreni?