u/0111228492num212

Deleted all dating apps

I’m so burnt out from the dating scene. I’m a M got burned a bunch of times in my early 20s from women I loved and I never dealt with it properly which led to me being emotionally detached to other women, one of them I probably could’ve married but my stupid emotionally dead ass didnt give it a shot, that’s was over 2 years ago.

Since then I haven’t came close to finding someone worth dating, main source of dates coming from tinder and hinge, most recently the girls were just entitled and rude bar one girl, who I just didn’t have a spark with.

I’ve been mindlessly flicking the dating apps for months and months, caring less and less but still feeling frustrated. I’ve realised recently that I need to get over past traumas to be a better boyfriend in the future for someone, and I definitely have improved but I just need a complete break from the search for a gf for a while. I wouldn’t rule out in person environments for potentially getting a date but I won’t be forcing it.

Sorry for the vent, maybe some of you can relate to me, but when I deleted all my dating profiles I felt a relief. I’m no longer interested in hookups, I’m happy to stay single until I’m bothered to put effort into dating again.

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u/0111228492num212 — 2 days ago