I found out my mother was stealing from my Nanna. She had her debit card connected to her billing accounts for autopay for two years. I found out, made my mother take it off and was basically like, you need to get it together. you’re either a thief or you’re so irresponsible you had no idea. Either way, wtf. She played the victim and was like, “oh I can’t believe you would think that of me.” And now has gone radio silent. Wont speak to me. Has zero intention of literally ever speaking to me again.
Mother’s Day is coming up. What the fuck do I do. Do I get her something? I don’t want to hurt her feelings (stupid I know). But I can’t keep living like this. It’s been this my whole life. She kind of terrible I’ve just found ways around it at my own expense. I’m leaning on ignoring the whole altogether. Any advice is appreciated.