u/-ClumsyAmoeba-

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Teen F, Posting from a throw away account for obvious reasons.

I got added to a gc a while back and it was chill ok? Lots of people js having fun convos. And me and another guy connected over time. First it started with giving random advice on girly advice to impress a friend of his. Then we started talking daily, I'm saying Good morning and good night texts, lots of ranting venting and let eachother into our lives while staying anonymous about our age.

The problem started when I found a post of his posted almost a year ago, and there he mentioned that he was in his late 20's–early 30's. I couldn't look at him the same after that and ik he wasn't being a creep or anything because we really had built a genuine friendship and I'm sure he didn't know I was significantly younger than him.

It'd be ok if he was around his early 20's, but 30's just felt... wrong? Even though I built such a deep connection with this random guy over the past 2 months, I had to cut things. And I ghosted him, slowly drifted away because i didnt know what else to do. I dont know it was the right way to end it. But it was definately the right thing to do, why does it feel so wrong tho? It feels like I betrayed someone who was just trying to be there for me. How do i get rid of this feeling?

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u/-ClumsyAmoeba- — 9 days ago