You may not know how to be more than yourself, but that is all some people need. Just another person that has been through the loss and understands the pain.
Not everyday will be the best! Don't let that get you down. Embrace the grief, the sadness, the sorrow. But Do Not let it hold you down. This is how I am feeling today, but I will talk to my family and my friends and I will smile inwardly again soon.
I lost my soulmate last month and I feel as if I didn’t appreciate everything he did for me. How does one deal with this?
I know he did so much but I don’t think I let him know just how much I appreciate it. It’s now tearing me apart.
I want to be honest from the beginning: I haven’t personally lost a spouse. But over the years, I’ve watched people close to me go through that kind of grief, and I’ve seen how deep, isolating, and life-changing it can be.
After listening to so many stories and witnessing the emotional weight that follows the loss of a partner, I decided to write a book about spouse loss and grief. Not as an expert with all the answers, but as someone who wanted to create something compassionate, comforting, and understanding for people going through one of the hardest experiences imaginable.
The book talks about:
My goal wasn’t to tell people how to grieve, but to help them feel less alone in it.
For anyone interested, I’d also be happy to send a free digital copy. Just leave a comment or send me a private message, and I’ll gladly share it.
Hi, I wanted to get on here and share my experience in case anyone else is looking for closure. My husband died 2 weeks ago this Monday and I was grieving so hard but I started doing soul searching and reading about people near death experiences and Mediums. Well I scheduled an appointment with a well rated medium and even though most spirit dont come through after a tragedy so soon (it usually takes a month to an entire year for some) i had to try. I asked the medium to talk to my grandma first as I wasnt ready to bring up my husband and he gave me alot of on point info including how she passed and that she had visited my dreams several times over the years which was true, at the end he also did my grandpa and told me how he passed as well and it was very accurate and that they both had a message for my mom. Well after my grandma I asked him about my husband and when he was able to contact him he decided to check again just in case by some miracle there was someone eith the same name, but nope. It was my Corbyn. I was crying the entire time as he spoke to me about what my love was saying and described how he died and that it happened so fast he didnt feel any pain and that I need to stop over thinking and stressing about his death. He said my love has been trying his hardest to let me know he was there but I was mourning to hard to get the messages. He had paused at a moment confused about "strings" and asked how me and my husband met and then told me we were soul mates and that my husband was waiting for me on a boat, and that he was building us a house between the ocean and the mountains. He said what the house looked like was a surprise. And even a cupcake came to mind and it was just my husbands best friends birthday the day before and another friend and my sister and I's birthday is next month as well. My first birthday with him we had sat in his car and blew out a candle on a cupcake. He even brought up the pocket watch I buried him with. The medium said the my love said "I love you alot, and I hope to see you soon" which was crazy cause in a envelope i placed in his coffin and in a text message i sent him I told him "I hope to see you soon!" and that was not a common thing we said to eachother in person. He also knew that where the wreck happened was i place i drove by every day as it was a rode me and my husband took to and from work 4 times a day as we work splits. The only thing the medium asked of me was my name and their name and he handled everything else. I loved it and even though I was crying that mourning I was smiling for the rest of the day after. So to any of you out their who needs closure i hope your able to reach them because even though im still sad and exhausted I feel like a weight has been taken off of me and I can grieve easier and live life again.