my story
Hi
i’ve never spoke to anyone about this yet as it’s a situation were i genuinely don’t know what to do. i’ve been with this guy for 4years and we have a one year old together. im 23F on a throwaway account btw. we live together and i can currently only work part time due to financial struggles and a not supportive relationship. my boyfriend refuses to help with the child and refuses to get childcare as it’s ’too dangerous’ but also expects me to pay for EVERYTHING. he’s a dead beat that i can’t afford to get away from. i plan to move myself and my kid away as soon as possible but with the combination of lack of full time employment (due to not being allowed childcare or even having the funds for it) and the general cost of everything no adays im fully fully fucked. i don’t want to be controlled anymore and ive tried to up my paycheck with no success. any advice or help would really work. i’m currently 4 months behind on rent (around £3000) and trying to escape this hell hole of a relation ship. please and advice or help.