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Do you hate yourself for watching porn? Do you want to learn to love yourself and stop watching porn instead?
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Do you hate yourself for watching porn? Do you want to learn to love yourself and stop watching porn instead?

Which road do you want?

Do you want to try to control everything and hate yourself when you fail?

Or do you want to learn to love yourself no matter what and still get free of porn.

Do you want a shitty experience quitting?

Or do you want to take the easy road and actually have fun quitting?

When you quit with me it’s fun because I am fucking funny AND… if the end result is you get free of porn… why would you not want it to be fun?

Why would you want it to be hard and filled with disappointment and hating yourself when it could be easy, fun and you learn to love yourself ?

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u/TheTankIsEmpty99 — 1 day ago
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"Is it porn?"

I remember my brain could go a bit like "websites are porn but short clips on reddit aren't. Sexual stories aren't really porn. OF scrolling isn't reeeeally porn. Bikini pics on insta definitely not porn."

So i quit the obvious porn and felt like I was clean (doing this properly at least). But then I quickly realized I wasn't and the addiction was just rerouting through whatever loophole that was open, and there were a lot of them.... our brains are great at doing this

So I developed a special test (lol): is this objectification?

Not really developed anything but I stopped asking "is this technically porn?" or "is this on a porn site?" and switched to: am I reducing a person to a body for my own use right now? Or simpler: is this objectification?

>If yes, ditch it. Doesn't matter what platform, what format, how "soft" it is. Same loop, same wiring, same s***.

And so far no false positives haha. The addiction can't argue its way around it the way it can with "well technically this isn't porn."

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u/ResetHive — 3 days ago
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Sex and intimacy

Sex is intimate.
Intimacy isn’t always sex.
Intimacy > sex imo.
Intimacy w/ sex > all things everywhere.
It took me a lifetime to fully understand that.

u/TheTankIsEmpty99 — 2 days ago