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i feel ashamed

i’m posting this here because i genuinely don’t know who else to turn to. all my life i’ve wanted to be a writer. it’s what’s kept me alive in my darkest moments.

recently i had a huge knock-down with a non-fiction proposal, so my agent and i have discussed moving into fiction instead. i LOVE writing fiction more than anything - my genre of choice is dark romance/erotic historical fiction, and i have a completed novel of this nature sitting in my drafts.

now, i mentioned to my parents that i’d be moving into the fiction space, when they asked what genre, i said ‘romance’ and left it at that. they, of course, assumed it was ‘smut’ and shamed me, said i’d never be taken seriously, etc.

now i feel embarrassed and ashamed, i don’t want to write anymore, i feel unsupported and like someone has taken a sledgehammer to my ONE lifeline and the only thing i’m proud of. i’m also scared of being disowned/kicked out of the house if i release something of that nature.

but i’m a woman in my 20s. at the same time i’m thinking, ‘i can write what i want’? i’m not a kid. nonetheless, i am feeling so, so low and broken right now. i feel so unsupported by my family (not my agent though - she’s absolutely superb and really kind). does anyone have some words of advice on how to overcome these feelings i’m having and get enthusiastic about my writing again?

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u/princessnymphadora — 1 day ago

I'm just so excited and I don't have very many people in my real life that I can tell. My debut published on Kindle Unlimited today and it's a dream come true. I know it's the first step in a long journey, but for today I am basking in the joy.

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u/Certain_Meeting3495 — 8 days ago

Unsure when to announce that I write erotica

I’m (40m) a professional writer, and have recently been exploring the genre of erotica (or “smut” as many people know it). It’s become a crowded field, but my audience has been growing and I’ve gained a loyal following, which has been rewarding.

However, I have hesitated to tell friends and family about my new area of writing. I’m not sure why, as it’s legitimate and I’m proud of the initial success I’ve had. But when I told a close friend and his wife early on, they both raised eyebrows and kind of joked about it, which made me think I should keep it private for now.

The question is, when is the right time to “come out” as a writer of this type of fiction? The more my audience grows the more it feels inevitable that I will need to go public with this, and I want to control the timing and message.

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u/TomatoQuick9807 — 4 days ago

I just did something I never even thought was for me! I wrote and published a novel!

If you had told me a year ago that I'd be a published author, I wouldn't have believed you. I was never much of a reader, let alone a writer. But earlier this year, I started writing in a journal just to untangle my own thoughts and feelings. Somewhere along the way, it sparked a story, and within a few short months, I had poured my heart into an entire romance novel. I fell completely in love with the process. The words just kept flowing, and now my debut novel is actually out in the world! I'm currently deep into editing the sequel, and I already have rough drafts for the rest of the series in the works. Finding this unexpected passion has been so exciting, and I just had to share that joy out loud today!

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u/ExplanationIll3928 — 3 days ago

I’m reading a self-help book that discourages authors from burning out trying to keep up with authors who write a book a month. When I thought about it, I realized I don’t know if I’ve read any work by those people? Does anyone know any authors who have actually written a book a month (recently or not) and published that way for a whole year straight? I should be clear I don’t mean the people who use AI to write their prose now, I mean people who actually wrote a novel’s length amount of words in a month before AI, and then went through the process to publish those same words in a month. Anyone have any series recommendations?

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u/goodnightjournal — 10 days ago
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Question about R&R from indie romance press

What is your experience with R&R?

I have had a revise and resubmit first three chapters (based on first five pages) to a well-regarded editor at TWRP.

Do you think there is any chance here? I am now in the waiting game. I edited and sent back, and received a confirmation she got it. She said, "I'll get back to you shortly." but the wait....(Insert whining). In the meantime, I have finished up the next book in the series and sent it to betas. So, I am coping through moving forward. But I just wanted to see if anyone had experience with this type of R&R, and having success? Or not?

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Hey Quibble community!

Last week I reached out to Jasper, the head mod of r/GrimDarkEpicFantasy. I found him incredibly gracious, considerate and supportive. There’s an unmistakable sense that he cares deeply about the integrity of their subreddit and the well-being of its writers.

It’s also clear his team is guided by values that closely mirror ours at Quibble: safeguarding and championing human-created work in all its forms.

Beyond that, there are three more reasons I’d warmly recommend taking a look at their subreddit:

  1. They hosted an AMA with the Father of Grimdark, Glen Cook - His historical first ever Reddit appearance.
  2. Joe Abercrombie agreed to come on for an AMA when they hit 10,000 members (soon!)
  3. They host regular short story competitions with the winners being added to an annual physical community anthology, plus prize contests and paperback.

They’ve also put together a Grimdark Index - a well-organized resource that’s useful if you’re exploring the genre.

If those values and initiatives resonate, consider joining their community.

u/TurbulentLock717 — 2 days ago

I was wondering how many words my romance slow burn should be per chapter. So far I’ve been thinking 2500-3000 was alright. If I’m wrong let me know

Tysm!

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u/Rayney-Days — 10 days ago

Tips and tricks to keep dual narrator voices distinct

I'm working on my first MM romance and I'm trying hard to keep the two narrators' voices distinct from each other.

If you've written books with this structure (two MC's have first person narrator role in alternating chapters) do you have any tips/tricks/suggestions on how to do that? At this point the newness of writing this kind of book, period, makes me feel like all of my sentences are very samey samey.

Any suggestions would be deeply appreciated. Thanks!

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u/WavingOrDrowning — 4 days ago
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Sometimes I think one of the strangest things about writing is how deeply it can fill your inner world while quietly leaving your outer world a little empty.

For me, writing has never felt like “creating characters” in a cold or technical way. It feels more like meeting them. Listening to them. Following them. Some stories arrive with such emotional force and fluency that it almost feels like I’m discovering something rather than inventing it.

I’ve always loved solitude, and I genuinely love the private, introspective life that writing gives me. But lately I’ve been feeling the other side of that more strongly too, especially now that I’m trying to share my work and actually bring readers toward it. Writing feels natural to me. Marketing, visibility, and self-promotion do not.

I write historical drama, which can feel like an even lonelier corner sometimes. I love stories shaped by melancholy, moral conflict, psychological depth, and the emotional weight of history, but it’s not always easy to find people who want to talk about those things with the same intensity.

So I guess I’m sharing this partly because I’m curious: Does anyone else feel this way?
Do you ever feel so fulfilled by writing itself that you forget to build the social side of being an author, only to realize later how much that support system matters?

And if you write historical drama, literary fiction, or emotionally heavy stories, I’d especially love to hear from you.

Also, this is the mindset from which my novel Rest In War was born, a WWII historical drama shaped by inner conflict, emotional tension, and the kind of questions that don’t offer easy answers. If anyone is curious, I’m happy to share the link too.

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u/Pearl_MS99 — 7 days ago

TL;DR: 28% of Dark Romance bestsellers explicitly reference organized crime (mafia or bratva) in the subtitle. 13 out of 15 trope keywords from subtitles show up in Amazon autocomplete, meaning readers are actually searching for them. But the books with the most reviews tend to NOT use trope keywords at all. Two strategies, both working.

The other day I posted an analysis of Small Town Romance listings. Today I wanted to try something different and on a different sub. Instead of comparing top vs bottom rankings, I wanted to know: what are authors actually putting in their subtitles, and does it match what readers type into Amazon's search bar?

So I grabbed the top 100 books from Amazon's Dark Romance bestseller list, pulled apart every subtitle, counted the words, and then ran the most common terms through Amazon's autocomplete to see which ones readers are actually searching for.

Quick note on what I mean by "subtitle": On Amazon, the full title field usually looks like this: Main Title: Subtitle (Series Name Book 3). I'm looking at the subtitle portion, the part after the colon. That's where authors put their trope keywords.

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The raw numbers:

Out of 100 Dark Romance bestsellers:

What appears in the title Count
"romance" 48
"dark" 37
"mafia" 15
"bratva" 13
"daddy" 7
"MC" (motorcycle club) 5
"obsession" 5
"forced marriage" 4
"why choose" 4
"stalker" 4
"billionaire" 4
"omega" 4
"MM" 4
"age gap" 3
"pregnancy" 3
"monster" 3
"bully" 2
"stepbrother" 2
"arranged marriage" 2
"paranormal" 2

48 out of 100 books put the word "romance" in their title. 37 put the word "dark" in there. Almost half the list is spelling out the genre in the subtitle.

Counts are based on substring matches within subtitles, so some phrases overlap (e.g., "dark mafia romance" contributes to counts for both "dark" and "mafia").

The organized crime takeover

This is the thing that jumped out at me. Combine mafia (15) and bratva (13) and you get 28 books.

28% of all Dark Romance bestsellers explicitly reference organized crime in the subtitle.

And it's not just clustered at the top. I checked:

Rank range Mafia/Bratva books
#1-25 10
#26-50 6
#51-75 2
#76-100 7

It shows up in every quartile of the list, though it's heaviest in the top 25. This isn't a couple of authors dominating the top 10. It's a dominant theme across the whole category.

The most common two-word phrase in all 100 subtitles? "Mafia romance" at 10 appearances. "Dark mafia" is second with 6.

The trope stacking

Some of these subtitles read like a tag list on AO3:

  • "A Forced Marriage Age Gap Mafia Romance"
  • "An Obsessive Love, Secret Marriage Dark Bratva Romance"
  • "A Dark Why Choose Bully Romance"
  • "An Age Gap Surprise Pregnancy Dark Romance"
  • "A Forced Proximity Dark Mafia Romance"

55 out of 100 books have at least one trope keyword in the title. The other 45 go with evocative-only titles like "Souls in Ruin" or "Rain of Shadows and Endings" with no trope signaling at all.

So do readers actually search for these words?

This is the part I was most curious about. Authors are stuffing their subtitles with trope keywords, but are readers actually typing those words into Amazon's search bar?

I ran the top 15 trope phrases through Amazon's autocomplete (the suggestions that pop up as you type). If Amazon suggests it, that means enough people search for it that Amazon thinks it's worth recommending.

Keyword In autocomplete?
dark romance Yes
mafia romance Yes
bratva romance Yes
forced marriage romance No
age gap romance Yes
why choose romance Yes
dark mafia romance Yes
billionaire romance dark Yes
stalker romance Yes
bully romance Yes
dark bratva Yes
enemies to lovers dark romance Yes
daddy romance Yes
omega romance Yes
stepbrother romance dark No

13 out of 15 trope keywords appear in Amazon autocomplete. Autocomplete isn't a perfect proxy for search volume, but it does indicate a term is being searched frequently enough for Amazon to surface it as a suggestion. This shows alignment between what authors put in subtitles and what readers actually type into the search bar. Alignment, not causation.

The two that don't show up: "forced marriage romance" and "stepbrother romance dark." Interesting considering forced marriage appears in 4 of the top 100 subtitles. Authors are using that phrase but readers might not be searching for it directly.

Amazon's autocomplete even gets specific. When you type "bratva romance" it suggests "bratva romance dark possessive" and "bratva romance spicy kindle unlimited." When you type "dark mafia romance" it suggests "dark mafia romance with triggers" and "dark mafia romance free books."

But here's the thing.

The books with the most reviews tend to NOT have trope keywords in the subtitle. The top 5 by review count in this list: Alchemised (32,000), Rain of Shadows and Endings (28,000), Chasing Love (23,600), Storm of Secrets and Sorrow (22,900), Tempest of Wrath and Vengeance (18,700). None of them mention a single trope.

That probably isn't a coincidence. Most of those are deep in a series where readers already know what they're getting. They don't need the subtitle to sell the genre. The newer books with fewer reviews are using subtitles as billboards because nobody knows who they are yet. "A Dark Forced Marriage Age Gap Mafia Romance" isn't great prose but it tells a reader scrolling through search results exactly what they're getting in under two seconds.

Series vs standalone: 61 of the 100 are series books. 39 are standalones.

What this tells me and what it doesn't:

This is a snapshot of one category on one day (April 30, 2026). All 100 of these books are already in the top 100 which means they're all succeeding. I can't see the thousands of Dark Romance books below #100 that might also have "bratva" in the subtitle and are going nowhere. This is what winners look like, not what creates winners.

That said, a few observations:

  1. The subtitle trope keywords closely match what readers search for. 13 out of 15 validated through autocomplete. This doesn't capture positioning (e.g., first vs last in subtitle) or phrase combinations, which likely matter more than individual word frequency. But the alignment is there.
  2. There's clearly room for both approaches. 55% signal tropes in the subtitle, 45% don't. Books like "Alchemised" (#14, 32,000+ reviews) and "Losers: Part One" (#24, 13,000+ reviews) dominate without a single trope keyword. Once you have the readership, you don't need the keywords.
  3. The organized crime sub-niche within Dark Romance is massive. If you're writing dark romance that ISN'T mafia or bratva, you might actually have less competition for subtitle real estate because everyone else is fighting over the same "dark mafia romance" space.

Also I can't see ad spend, BookTok virality, ARC teams, newsletter promos, or any of the off-Amazon factors that drive rank. A book at #5 might be there because of a killer ad campaign not because they put "bratva" in the subtitle.

***One more thing:***I run daily scrapers across a bunch of Kindle categories. If there's a category or niche you want me to look at, drop it in the comments. I'm keeping a list.

I use Python to scrape Amazon and Claude Code locally to help me organize and count the data. Real person, just likes building tools. The words and opinions are mine.

Hopefully this info ya'll find interesting!

Thanks!

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u/Whole-Bee-4610 — 12 days ago

anyone else lose interest in static erotica after interactive stuff

Not saying static erotica is bad, but after getting into more interactive stuff, it just feels... limited.

Like you're locked into one version of the story with no control over how it plays out. Whereas when you're building it yourself, everything feels more personal and flexible. Kind of hard to go back tbh.

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u/Lower_Run_8836 — 5 days ago
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u/Andrewmaino — 7 days ago

Building your own fantasy feels way different than just reading it

Honestly I didn’t expect this but writing my own fantasy hits completely different than just reading something.

It’s not even about it being “better”, it’s just the fact that I’m deciding everything as it happens. Like when things slow down, when stuff escalates, what direction it goes in.

Reading feels kinda passive in comparison now. Not sure if anyone else noticed that shift or if it’s just me.

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u/Usual_Actuator6756 — 5 days ago

He publicado mi segundo debut en Kindle Unlimited. Una historia sobre segundas oportunidades y un crucero para corazones rotos. Se llama Los pasajeros del Affetto. Hoy me permito estar orgulloso. Ahora viene lo difícil, conseguir lectores, ¡pero estoy motivado!

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u/Additional_Event_765 — 8 days ago

I still read stuff sometimes, but it just doesn’t hit the same anymore.

When you’re building the fantasy yourself, you’re not stuck with someone else’s pacing or direction. You can literally adjust everything in the moment.

That control makes it way more immersive.

Feels like a completely different experience.

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u/Forward_Glove_9248 — 8 days ago