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Wedding Invite Etiquette
I was recently invited to the wedding of my client’s son and I’m wondering about the etiquette around declining versus attending. This is a client of mine, I like him very much and occasionally take his team out to dinner. When he learned that I don’t usually take my clients out, he invited me to his son’s upcoming wedding. I don’t know if he extended this offer out of a sense of reciprocity. I do not know his son or the fiancée. I’m happy to attend but don’t want to be an added expense out of sense of obligation. Is it common in Punjabi culture to extend casual invites and is it common to decline such invitations? I don’t want to cause any ill feelings. I am not Punjabi so I apologize for the ignorance.
DNA
Do you think Sainis and Sidhus Jat share the same DNA? They are both Yaduvanshi discent
Discussing the Punjabi music industry
Hi guys! I love Punjabi music, and I just came out with a podcast episode all about it!
https://open.spotify.com/episode/5yKx0kYFahgl1zYcuO97DQ?si=oIbONGRlTzeh7t6c1jLfDw
I talk about my fav songs/singers, my thoughts on the industry, and my experience at Karan Aujla’s concert.
I would love some feedback. Thank you so much! 😊
Spreading hate news against Punjab and Punjabi
This is fake twisted news. ⚠️⚠️
Real story: The students are not demanding ‘Punjabi only’ boards. They’re asking the college to restore Punjabi, which was already on the previous boards and was removed by the college. They want all 3 languages Punjabi, Hindi, and English. If the college is in Punjab, why remove Punjabi in the first place?
The students in these clips are educated and noone is forcing only Punjabi narrative. This newspage has sick mindset
We should report such content. How can this be removed... It is doing so much harm
bhour khichi aunda vaan mean
bhour khichi aunda vaan mean
Formation of Haryana
Theere has been misinformation about the formation of Haryana and the resource allocation ( Chandigarh, water etc.). I will try to represent Haryana and give its view.
- Reorganization of State was based on linguistic census of 1961. Fazilka tehsil( Ferozpur District) was Hindi majority tehsil yet it never gets transferred to Haryana.
2.Narwana and Jind Tehsil( erstwhile Sangrur district) was Hindi majority and transferred to Haryana.
3.Kharar Tehsil ( erstwhile Ambala district,of which Chandigarh is part of in '61) was Hindi majority yet it was made a UT.
Ropar Tehsil( erstwhile Ambala district) gets transferred to Punjab and Nalagarh tehsil to Himachal.
- In terms of Government Jobs Punjabi areas captured overwhelming number of posts.
Hopeful for a positive discussion😀😀
Good Movie Recommendations for Comprehension
I have bad speaking skills in Punjabi but my comprehension is decent enough that i understand my parents talking to me. Im a teenager but give any movie recommendations, i dont mind, just one that ill really enjoy and maybe be able to understand with no subtitles (my goal is to become more fluent)
For genre i havent watched any Punjabi movies in a while but i quite liked Jawan and other war films so please recommend that type of stuff. I also enjoy Anime Rom-Coms so those could be fine too, i just think id prefer war movies cause thats what i enjoyed as a kid.
Like i said earlier, id like to watch with no subtitles so id prefer if less complex language was used. im asking because i want to learn how to speak and get a larger vocabulary. thanks in advance for any suggestions :)
edit: I forgot to mention this before but please suggest movies which use clear understandable speech in Majhi dialect, because thats my target dialect and is the one i understand best. thanks.
Why are punjabi movies like that🙏🏻😭
Idk i was watching this movie "saadi marzi" and realised that racism is soo soo common in punjabi movies.
The parents in punjabi movies have no problem with their son marrying a white girl but as soon as its black person, the situation is a total opposite. Even in the famous movie
"jatt n juliet" (i forgot 1 or 2) as soon as fateh imagines himself w a black person he is all defensive and in denial but he was running for that gori that pooja was initially helping him with and alsoo the colourism like the movie
"kala shah kala" and so many more movies and similar issues with body shaming like the famous fateh scene of jatt and Juliet where he mistakens the other fat girl as pooja.
I get this might be a "fun" topic and cud be in js 1-2 movies but like every movie????????
As a person with friends of different races, punjabi media gets limited to very less and i dont wanna spend time reasoning out the issues in the movies.
Plus, the over used plot
Theres literally nothing new in the punjabi industry js same plot of a girl and guy and situations happening around them
We can do so much better than this 😭😭😭🙏🏻like i see da potential
"Wait for the Punjabi translation... 💀"
Kirpal Singh and the rise of the shahadat tasveeran genre of Sikh painting
In the late colonial period in the early 20th century, the traditional miniature style of painting had already long been displaced by realist oil paintings introduced to the Sikhs from the West. Two Sikh artists from the period stand-out whose influence still impacts us today, namely Sobha Singh and Kirpal Singh. Each one propounded a painting style that came to dominate. In Indian art, the term rasa is used to describe a particular emotion and aesthetic that is evoked when looking upon an art-piece. Sobha Singh painted principally in the shanta rasa, described as conjuring a sense of calmness, serenity, and tranquility upon the viewer, achieved through certain colours, mannerisms, and symbolisms. Meanwhile, Kirpal Singh painted in the very different veer rasa, bibhatsa rasa, and bhayanaka rasa styles, instilling a sense of heroism, terror, violence, and shock to the audience, characterised by the raw and gritty portrayals. In Kirpal Singh's works, one overwhelming theme is present: shahadat tasveeran (martyrdom images), the start of a trend that become hegemonic in the 20th century of Sikh painting.
Kirpal Singh was a man of humble means, he was born in 1923 into a Ramgarhia family of carpenters in a village in Zira tehsil, present-day Firozpur district. His father had carved the Jain temple of Zira's wooden-gate. Kirpal had no formal higher-level education in art. He became interested in producing artwork after witnessing girls' in his house's courtyard crafting colourful phulkaris, he too wanted to create beauty with his hands. One of his first drawings as a child was of a scene from the Baburnama, which he was very proud of, hanging it in his room at home. He would make sketches in his note-book and copy the images from his text-books in-order to hone his young skills. He later studied at Sanatan Dharma College in Lahore, undivided Panjab. In 1940, he did a series of pilgrimage tours to the various gurdwaras of the city, especially the ones associated with historical and religious martyrs (shaheeds) of the Sikh Quom, a plethora of which are located in the cultural-capital of the Panjab. At the same time, the birth anniversary was being celebrated in Lahore while he was touring. One can imagine what kind of impact seeing these places first-hand at such an auspicious time had on the mind of the young Kirpal.
After studying, he became employed in the colonial military's accounts department but the partition of Panjab in 1947 made him shift to Jalandhar. At Jalandhar, he became acquainted with the works and styles of the European masters of art, names such as Ilya Repin, Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, and Rubens, whose work would influence Kirpal there-after. In 1952, he moved to Delhi to work as a commercial-artist but came to dislike the trade. At one point, he was operating out of a farm in rural Haryana, with him creating a painting of Sri Guru Hargobind Sahib at Gwalior Fort. After a couple of disappointing exhibitions of his works, Kirpal struck-luck in 1956, when the Shiromani Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee hired him and other Sikh artists to work under their patronage to create paintings depicting scenes from Sikh history, which were to be housed in the Central Sikh Museum, established two years later in 1958 at Amritsar. All the artists the SGPC hired for the task painted in the western realism style, officiating the method in Sikh art tradition and giving it a sanctified status. However, Kirpal had trouble with the curator of the museum and quarreled with them often, with Kirpal coming to dislike living in the city, despite its sacred-status. He began wearing a black chola, coming to identify with the Sufi practice of asceticism.
Eventually, Kirpal quit his SGPC role and shifted to Delhi, working for other patrons. One day he caught the eye of Mohinder Singh Randhawa, who invited him Chandigarh. Kirpal had some interesting jobs under Randhawa, from painting some of the largest works ever created in India for the Anglo-Sikh War Memorial in Ferozeshah to painting dinosaurs from the Mesozoic Era for the Museum of [the] Evolution of Life! In 1984, he re-painted some of the works he had done previously for the Central Sikh Museum in a more detailed manner. Unfortunately, he died in an accident in 1990. He is survived by a son named Jarnail Singh, who followed in his father's foot-steps as an artist. He also had a daughter, with not much being known about her.
Now we shall discuss his art-style. Kirpal Singh clearly favoured both the somber and inspirational episodes of Sikh Itihaas (history). He enjoyed depicting the Sikh gurus, martyrs, and heroes from the pages of the Sikh past, showcasing their bravery and resilience against the utter barbarity and cruelty of their opponents. These motifs inspire Sikhs of today to recall their ancestors and forebearers, instilling a sense of self-reflection within our souls, leading us to also gain the strength to face the hardship that life poses to each and every one of us. The backgrounds of his paintings are always rather blurry, calling us to pay attention to the primary scene and bask in its message. There is a certain sense of brave and resounding masculinity imbued in his portrayals of Sikh warriors in-particular, shown proudly and regally, armed with weapons and on-horseback, eliciting the Sikh principles of Tyar Bar Tyar ("ready upon ready"), Chardi Kala (unrelenting optimism no matter the situation faced), and Sant-Sipahi (saint-warriors).
This style of painting became extremely popular and many painters after Kirpal Singh were inspired by his work, even emulating and copying his paintings, not as plagiarism but out of respect and honour for the great-master. Today, you can see his paintings decorating the walls of our homes and the langar halls (community-kitchens) of our sacred sites. I hope you enjoyed reading this and next-time you see a painting by Kirpal Singh, take a moment to appreciate it and feel the emotions it evokes within you.
If you want to see his paintings, many are housed in Sikh museums such as the Central Sikh Museum in Amritsar, the Sardar Baghel Singh Museum of Gurdwara Bangla Sahib in New Delhi, the Guru Tegh Bahadur Niwas at Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib, Gurdwara Mehdiana Sahib, at Punjabi University (Patiala), Punjab Agricultural University (Ludhiana), the Sikh Regimental Centre in Rampur, the Anglo-Sikh War Memorial in Ferozeshah, Takht Sri Patna Sahib, Takht Sri Kesgarh Sahib, and the Government Museum and Art Gallery of Chandigarh. I am sharing high-resolution scans of a selection of his works so that you may savour them. I decided to omit including captions of the paintings as I did not want to bias them with my own interpretation and I leave you as the viewer to come to you own conclusions on the scenes depicted. However, nearly all depict famous sakhis (tales), events, or figures from the annals of Sikh history.
Acknowledgments: I would like to take a moment to recognize the research of Mohinder Singh Randhawa, Gurmukh Singh, and Sayan Gupta, whose writings I consulted to create an accurate piece on Kirpal Singh's life and style.
Short Punjabi stories for beginners with translations
I'd like to read some short and simple stories to help improve my Punjabi. It's hard to speak to my family in Punjabi, bc they aren't supportive, and I find it easier and more helpful to read stuff and speak it aloud when learning languages. I know this has worked for me, as it's how I've learnt other languages.
I've tried to find some online, but they don't come with English translations and I do not trust Google translate.
NB: im only looking fir stories written in ਗੁਰਮੁਖੀ, NOT transliterations nor shahmukhi. I also don't mind if the stories are designed for kids, just any simple story.
A rare historical depiction of the Panjabi Muslim folk-hero Dullah Bhatti, published by J. S. Sant Singh & Sons, circa late 19th or early 20th century
He was a Panjabi Muslim folk hero who led a revolt against Mughal-rule during the reign of Emperor Akbar. He is entirely absent from the recorded history and the only evidence of his existence comes from Panjabi folk songs. His image has been described as being akin to Robin Hood, stealing from the rich and giving to the poor. Many tales narrate his life. This Panjabi festival of Lohri is connected to him.
This depiction was published in the work Dulla Bhatti Kalan. Shoutout to X/Twitter user maula_jatt_v2 for finding this.
Is it true or is it just me?
I have always noticed that whenever i talk to the people around me, even though we are speaking punjabi we embed a lot of words from english including many words for everyday stuff.
These aren't even borrowed words like school but just words straight from the english language despite the fact that there are plenty of native punjabi words for it.
Do you also face a similar scenario and what are your opinions on it?
Saying Punjabi bad words to your partner?
Hi everyone,
I have questions to all Punjabi men here specially born in Punjab, how can you swear at your gf or wife. Not just swearing but saying it to you. i cannot write it here because i am traumatized with those words. But you what i am talking about. Like bhen****di. stuff like this and worse you can think of. i just want honesty how many of you have said these kinds of words to your wife or gf. And girls how many of you have heard in your life. Because i cannot figure it out if its normal, because my ex used to swear at me a lot and my now bf soon to be ex said so many bad words in an argument even though i told both of them, please never say bad words to me. I am so scared now that no matter what i do i always end up in this situation. If you want to know situation why that argument happened i can also share maybe i will get some insight on that too because i am so lost and i cannot figure for my life that what is wrong what is right.
Just want to slap 😤 this guy . He hates punjab/punjabis so much
Have you seen any videos of this dumb cat
It may be controversial but I will attempt to write an article titled "Sikh communism and socialism". If anyone knows of any resources covering Communism and socialism in Panjab to assist with the task, please let me know.
I am an amateur Sikh historian who has wanted to write a dedicated article covering the entire history of Sikh Communism and socialism. However, if anyone knows where I may find resources or knows any information that may help with the task, please let me know. Thank you! I will share some interesting images related to leftist ideologies in Panjab.
Pictured:
Darshan Singh Pheruman (second from left) under arrest in Amritsar following his participation in a 1938 mogha (canal) morcha. He is standing alongside communist activists, including Sohan Singh Bhakna (second from right). Source: Amarjit Chandan Collection
Cover depicting the body of a worker being garlanded by the extended arms of the Kirti. Source: Desh Bhagat Yadgar Hall
Kirti cover depicting an agriculturist and a factory worker. Source: Desh Bhagat Yadgar Hall
Noted Ghadarite, ‘Baba’ Jawala Singh, lying in state surrounded by comrades. Jawala Singh died in a bus accident in 1938 on his way to the All India Kisan Conference. The banners in the background proclaim Jawala Singh as a patriot and leader of workers and peasants, and as a founder of the revolutionary movement. The woman sitting to the immediate right of Jawala Singh’s body is Raghbir Kaur, the only communist woman MLA elected to the Punjab Assembly in the 1936–37 elections. Standing right behind is Sohan Singh Bhakna. Source: Amarjit Chandan Collection
Communists marching in the Harse Chhina agitation against decreased irrigation distribution in 1946. Source: Photo by Margaret Bourke-White/The LIFE Picture Collection via Getty Images/Getty Images
Peasants – men, women, and children – marching across fields in the 1946 communist-led Harse Chhina agitation. Source: Photo by Margaret Bourke-White/The LIFE Picture Collection via Getty Images/Getty Images
Women listening to a speaker at the Harse Chhina agitation. Source: Photo by Margaret Bourke-White/The LIFE Picture Collection via Getty Images/Getty Images
Figures and info published in: Raza, Ali. Revolutionary Pasts: Communist Internationalism in Colonial India. Cambridge University Press; 2020.
Can someone help me translate this letter? I used google translate and need someone to tell me if it’s correct or if there’s a better way to say it.
This is what I translated (go down to comments for a picture)
ਪਿਆਰੇ ਸ਼੍ਰੀ ਗਰੇਵਾਲ
ਮੈਂ ****ਤੁਹਾਡੀ****** ਧੀ******** ਦੀ ਜ**਼ਿ**ੰਦਗੀ** ਵਿੱਚ ਇੰਨਾ******** ਦੁਖਦਾਈ ਪਲ**** ਲਿਆਉਣ******** ਲਈ****** ਮ**ੁਆਫ਼ੀ**** ਮ**ੰਗਣਾ** ਚ**ਾਹੁੰਦਾ**************** ਸੀ******।**** ਉਹ****** ਮੇਰੇ************ ਲਈ**** ਦ****ੁਨੀਆਂ ਸ***ੀ ਅਤ**ੇ* ਮੇਰੀ** ਸਭ ਤੋਂ ਚੰਗੀ****** ਦੋਸਤ********** ਸੀ।** ਮੈਂ** ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਦੋਵਾਂ******** ਨ******ੂੰ ਉਸਨੂੰ** ਦੁਖੀ ਕਰਨ**** ਲਈ**** ਮੁਆਫ਼ੀ ਮੰਗਣਾ** ਚਾਹੁੰਦਾ******** ਸੀ,** ਖਾਸ ਕਰਕੇ** ਜ******ਦੋਂ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਮੈਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੇ ਘਰ ਬੁਲਾਇਆ ਅਤੇ ਮੇਰੀ ਦੇਖਭਾਲ ਕੀਤੀ। ਤੁਹਾਡਾ ਵਿਸ਼ਵਾਸ ਅਤੇ ਦਿਆਲਤਾ ਹਮੇਸ਼ਾ ਮੇਰੇ ਲਈ ਕੀਮਤੀ ਰਹੇਗੀ।
ਤੁਹਾਡੇ** ਕੀਤ*ੇ ਹਰ* ਕੰਮ**** ਲ****ਈ ਧੰਨਵਾਦ******,******** ਪ**ਰ******** ਸ****ਭ ਤੋਂ**** ਮਹੱਤਵਪੂਰਨ,** ਅ**ੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ**** ਨੂੰ** **ਇਸ** ਦੁਨੀਆਂ ਵ****ਿੱਚ**** ਲਿਆਉਣ**** ਲਈ**। ਉਹ**** ਇੱਕ****** ਅਜਿਹੀ** ਵਿਅਕਤੀ** ਬਣਨ ਜਾ ਰਹੀ ਹੈ ਜਿਸਨੂੰ ਮੈਂ ਕਦੇ ਨਹੀਂ ਭੁੱਲਾਂਗਾ।
ਸਤਿਕਾ*******ਰ *********ਨਾਲ,
******ਡੋਰੋਥੀ
(My name)
Dear Mr Grewal
I just wanted to apologise for causing such a traumatic moment in your daughter's life. She meant the world to me and was my best friend. I also wanted to say sorry to you both for hurting her especially after you invited me into your home and took care of me. Your trust and kindess will always be treasured by me.
Thank you for everything you've done, but most importantly, for bringing Amrit into this world. She is going to be someone I'll never forget.
Sincerely,
(My name)
Any explanations of my last name?
Hi, this is a very out of the blue question for this sub but I was wondering if anyone had any insight/theories/explanations into why I have a Bengali last name (Tagore) as a Punjabi. All our relatives swear that we are 100% Punjabi and this has been a topic of discussion for a while now. My dad took an ancestry test and had no ancestry from Bengal whatsoever. There is a theory that we are descendants of one of Rabindrinath Tagore’s brothers, since apparently one of them came to Punjab. Another theory is that we just changed our last name to make it easier, and that our original last name is Taggar.
my family hails from nawanshehr, specifically Banga, so all of my family hails from Punjab. Does anyone have any thoughts?