r/londonlgbt

I'm considering going to the next Roast but have never been. What should I expect? What kind of outfits do people wear? Is there going to be lots of queuing?

any good recommendations for bars in central london that i could go to tomorrow? i know its a monday but i really wanted to go and looking for someone to go with as well maybe

Hi everyone,

I’ll be visiting London this autumn and I’d love to start connecting with people before I go.

I’m 31 and into art, cozy coffee shops, vintage fashion, bookstores, and theatre. I’m hoping to meet some cool people to hang out with while I’m there maybe explore the city, grab a coffee, check out some exhibitions, or just wander around nice neighborhoods.

If you’re up for making a new friend or showing me around a bit, feel free to message me, or leave a comment

So I’ve been on dating apps and etc… been used and everything by men… dating feels impossible. Get disappointed every time. I wanted a real relationship like someone honest and genuine. Who wants a relationship with me. But I can’t find any😭 everyone just wants to have hookups and I don’t want that. Real like dating feels impossible. I’m like is it my age? Am I doing something wrong why do I attract those type of people only? Am I alone or? Anyone know what I should do?

I am petite in build, short, slim, with soft skin and a boyish, baby-faced appearance. Physically, I consider myself a much below-average male, which I struggled with for a long time. I tried to change this by going to the gym and growing facial hair, but honestly, it did not alter how I felt, so I decided to be what I am without any changes in my appearance. 

Do not be shy of serving a Master. Nothing is more pleasurable for me than serving dominant men. I have polished thousands of men's shoes with my tongue and rubbed them with my towel in my dreams. Every time I am surprised at the entrance of a hotel or train station by a gentleman towering over me, I can barely hide my sharp inhale and my pleasure moan. At a restaurant, when a handsome couple enters towering over me, sometimes I put my hand over my mouth to suppress my moan! 

I am serving a British Master for the first time in my life.

Hey all,

I’m 26M in London. Got out of a long-term relationship with a woman about 8 months ago, and since then my attraction has shifted a lot. I’m now mainly into feminine-presenting people like femboys, crossdressers, and trans women, and I don’t really feel anything for women anymore.

I’ve chatted with a few people here but it’s mostly been hookup vibes, and I’m actually looking for something more genuine or even just friends.

Has anyone gone through something similar? Any advice on figuring this out or meeting people who want something real?

Also, if anyone around 24–28 in London wants to chat or grab a coffee, feel free to message 🙂

Anyone know of any orgys I’m a bottom and wanna be railed by 10 plus guys where do I start??

Hi all, I'm turning 40 in June and I'm trying to find a decent bar in London to reserve a table for about 15 people. Somewhere with a private area ideally (we are old :) . Would anyone have any ideas of where is good. GRATEFUL for any reccs xx

Thinking of going to The Bunker for the first time. Are there lockers to store stuff ? What’s the vibe ?

it's my first time cruising and i'm super nervous. i'm looking to suck as much dick as possible hahaha.

anyone got tips or advice?

Hey 👋

I’m a 27-year-old guy looking to meet new people—whether that turns into something romantic or just a solid friendship, I’m open to both. I’m pansexual and pretty laid-back, more on the thoughtful/quiet side (INFJ energy for sure), but I open up a lot once I’m comfortable.

A bit about me:

Big into PC gaming (CS2, R6 Siege) – always down to queue up

Anime & manga fan (can binge for hours, no shame)

Love Formula 1 and football

Into history, reading, and anything sci-fi or horror

I enjoy deep conversations just as much as messing around and laughing over dumb stuff

What I’m looking for:

Someone genuine and easy to talk to

Similar interests are a bonus, but not required

Open-minded and kind goes a long way

Whether it’s gaming together, chatting late at night, or seeing where things go, I’m here for it

If you’re into any of the above or just want someone chill to talk to, send a message. Tell me what you’ve been playing/watching lately or your favorite F1 team 👀

Let’s see where it goes.

Hi all! I’m visiting London from NYC for Pride this July and could use some help choosing where to stay.

I’m hoping to be close to LGBTQ+ neighborhoods and nightlife, but I’m torn between a few options:

• Primrose Hill (St Mark’s Square / Princess Road) — gorgeous area but definitely on the pricier side.
• Camden (Parkway near Arlington Road) — seems lively and more central.
• Primrose Hill (Fellows Road near Merton Road) — a bit farther out but still walkable to things.

If anyone knows these areas well, how do they compare for:

• Getting to Pride events
• Access to queer bars/clubs
• Safety at night
• Transit convenience
• Overall vibe during Pride weekend

Any insight would really help me narrow it down. Thanks in advance!

hey people, i was wondering if you guys know how to make friends, or queer friends, as a teenager, im not sure of places to go, I do struggle with being neurodivergent, other then that when I get to know the person I am talkative. if you guys know any cool places or ideas for me to meet people at, preferably during the day time, please let me know.

I got recently broken up by this guy and I didn’t even know about it. We were together for 6 months from June to December. Towards the end of December he started getting distant and not responding/ saying he wasn’t well and we didn’t meet for almost two weeks. After much trying, I sent a message saying everything I felt about this recent change- the change and how I felt about it. And I asked if he was really still interested in me. He replied with he needed some space to deal with things in his life wasn’t sure if he could give a 100% to the relationship and then just disappeared. After two months of pain and agony, I found out he was dating someone else through Facebook. When I asked him, he always dodged the question. 1 months after that I finally said I knew that he was seeing someone else and that I had no idea that it was over. He said that this guy was a friend and their photos were AI. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. While we were dating, he had pushed to be together the most and said he hates liars and now I find out, he was completely the opposite. We spoke a bit on the weekends after acknowledging that it was long over, but I still don’t know what happened.

Any thoughts and advice would be appreciated. Is this common in the gay dating scene?

i study music in brent london, i love the 3ds, producing on ableton, and thrifting <3 i’ve always been kind of a shut in so im not having the easiest time connecting with others and knowing where are the places and finding collectives to be social at

I am an artist manager of a London artist, Marz Fay. We are looking to bulk order various items this summer and would love to find a brand that we align with to order and support long term.

Health and wellness companies/brands are preferred but we are open to other company recommendations we can support as well. Any recommendations are welcome!

I’m travelling down to London in June to visit Row on 5 solo. Desperate to go, don’t really have people who would come with me so so I bit the bullet. Anyone else been solo that could share their experience? Or anyone else going around this time?