Aio for having feelings for a guy 9 years younger then me
I (28F) work in. A place with man people. I've started chatting to a few including Bob(not real name) a 19 year old guy. We got to talking and it ended up with us meeting and. Having sex. That's all it was meant to be. But. We've hit it off. Ans know. Feelings are developing for us both. We turn 29 and 20 at the end of the month. But he's admitted to having feelings for me. And honestly I've got a crush myself. It should be noted I've also been chatting to a guy my age. But he loves 6hoirs drive away from me but we both really get along and want to persue it. We've( me and bob)agreed to be friends as we do get along. The legal age in my country is 16. But it's a large gap and I fear what other people will think. Am I overthinking this. Or should I have just gone for it
Note : I still live with my mother as housing is a joke and cosy a fortune plus saving for a house hopefully. And she's very judgemental.