r/enby

Hi everyone. I’m AMAB and been presenting as female lately. I’m looking for good options for someone with bigger feet. Unfortunately most women’s shoes only go up to 11. And I’m a 13 in men’s which is like 14 in women’s.

Anyone know where an enby can find bigger fem shoes? Bonus if they’re cute and goth coded. TIA

Nonbinary transitions are always really interesting to see to me. I’ve known that I was some form of gender fluid for about ten years now, but it’s only been recently that I’ve started taking some steps out of my comfort zone.

Right now, my transition looks like:
- more androgynous haircut (think surfer)
- voice training to be more neutral
- minimizing my more curved features through diet/exercise and clothing choices
- no makeup unless I specifically want to wear it

What about you guys?

Hey all, this is my (amab —>enby) first summer out as nb, and I am starting to think about being at the pool and the beach as I have a holiday in about a month. I am not sure what swimwear to wear. I am not medically transitioned, so obvs cannot wear a bikini, but swim trunks feel too male. Anyone got any advice on what they wear or things they’ve come across? Maybe something like high waisted swim shorts that are short on the thigh? I’ve not seen anything like that though.