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Porn subscription in a relationship.

My girlfriend (24) and I (23M) have a joint account, and I saw a €30 charge for a porn site subscription. Frankly, I don't mind her watching porn or having her private moments; it doesn't shock me at all. On the contrary, it amused/surprised me, so I tried to playfully "trick" her. In a random conversation, I asked her, "How much would you be willing to pay for porn?" and she immediately replied, "€30," exactly the price of the subscription she'd bought the day before. She also replied that porn was not something she’s very fond of and that she would not pay for it at all.We also share a computer, and she doesn't seem to know about private tabs since I stumbled across her browsing history. So I saw that she'd been on the site several times during my workday, even though we'd been sexting all day, only to end up doing nothing (which is fine, by the way).So now I don't really know what to think. I'm not jealous of porn per se, but I admit that seeing her prefer it to me feels a little strange. Especially since it's a site that heavily features lesbian relationships—she's bi and I'm a heterosexual man, lol. I'm a bit lost now. She's entitled to her own space, of course, but should I talk to her about it? How? It's her private life, after all; I don't want to seem intrusive.

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u/No_Championship9238 — 10 hours ago