r/averagedickproblems

So guys, do average d*cks reach cervix? Tell us your experiences, and with the sizes pls.

I usually find it more fun when i'm the bigger guy because I feel like there's more attention on me? What are you guys' experiences being the bigger/smaller guy in a threesome?

i’m 6.5x4.7 so i’m pretty big, i had a threesome, and didn’t know the other guys size but when we got naked i saw he was way bigger than me, like his soft size was bigger than me erect, threesome was still fun but i was just super surprised, ever had this happen to you??

Hey guys, so my length is technically 6.3ish. Unfortunately, it seems I rarely hit that length. My erections are hard, but are often closer to 5.8. It’s really screwing with me, I’m wondering if anyone else experiences this?

I’ve read old threads on subreddits like “blackladies,” and even on African blogs, where there’s a lot of emphasis on size. They said that small penises were bad and didn’t satisfy them, or that big penises gave them better orgasms. Only a few comments said it wasn’t important or that they liked small penises.

I say this because I really like Black women, but I have a small penis, and their opinions make me feel very insecure. I would think that since they’re mostly feminists and are against the BBC, they wouldn’t be like the others—that they’d be more flexible and not phallocentric—but I feel like they’re just the same as other women.

So basically, I'm around 6.5 inches (17 cm) length-wise and around 5 inches thick down there. From what I've read on experience of people with similar size on reddit and various scientific studies, I get that I am on the bigger side, since average is somewhere near 5.5 inches. But prior to knowing this information, I used to think that I'm below average due to what was portrayed in porn and due to my own body image issues, which I still have. I feel better and more confident about my size.

However, just a month ago, I started having sex with my new gf and I can't get over the fact that she might think I'm below average. She hasn't said anything though. It's because, she has only had one partner before me; so all she knows about dicks is from porn. As a girl, she wouldn't have gone to such lengths as we do to research about what's non-porn penises look like. It does make me under confident with her.

To make problems worse, I get stuck with these thoughts while having sex, which makes me lose erection. And this exacerbates the problem even more because I am not able to reach my full size. I keep getting stuck in this anxiety loop.

How do I deal with this? I overthink a lot.

For some context, I run between 5.5-6.1 inches, BP (it deadass just depends on how aroused I am), and I've kinda accepted that..y'know I'm average, not swinging, but not tiny either. And I have a decent body count as well, like..8, and despite every single time, zero complaints and all, I still feel inadequate. I'm a shorter guy, about 5'5, and I'm also black, so..there's that racist ass stereotype that I still get insecure about. I just don't know how to stop feeling like this. Now it's not an all the time thing, it's more-so that it pops up every once in a while. Women constantly parading this "catching print" mess, constantly shaming smaller guys, and like I'm well aware women are not all like this because I literally had them. But it still gets to me, and I just don't know why or what to do to get over it.

I measure 5.5 inches bp, but my nbp is 4.5 and it makes me feel awful really. I feel like bonepressed is just a way for guys to feel good anyway.

Yes, whatever, scientists use bonepressed, I know. But I don't care. They probably think the same anyway. Literally every guy cares about his dick being average and above even if he's a brilliant scientist or whatever.

And no, the fat doesn't "smoosh" around during sex. It's fat, it's hard. It's not just some soft cotton that gets squished easily. What trluy matters in the end is your nbp measurement and mine is so bad.

I just measured today and my penis from the top measured at 6.2 inches and from the side 7 inches I measure my girth and it was also at 6.2 inches in thickness I tend to over think during sex and lose my erection thinking that the female thinks my dick is little because I can’t do crazy positions.

I (23) play basketball, and after a practice or a match some of my teammates/ members of the other team hop in the showers bearing it all.

And every time I look at the penises around me, I get intimidated how big they look. Sure there’s some variation, but for whatever reason they all seem to be bigger than mine and it makes me insecure to join in the showers as well.

My personal flaccid size is length/girth: 3.9x3,5 (inches) or 10x9 (centimeters)
which according to the internet is exactly the average. However I feel like I never see this “average” in the showers.

Does anyone share this experience? Am I making this up in my head.

Hey I'm 22M. I just wanted to know does often sex results in loose foreskin like foreskin always in retractable even in flaccid even though I'm not circumcised...also what other changes I might expect in my penis with constant or active sex life.

Hey guys, what are your experiences with loosing fat and gaining bone pressed size? Like when you bone pressed while having a fat pad, would it be possible that you’re not actually reaching the bone, and once you loose the fat pad the you can reach the real BP? Does that give you an extra 0.25” or 0.5” even? Any experiences? Thanks guys

I’m between 7-8” properly measured with a hard ruler and it’s pretty massive. I’ve yet to see anyone as bigger than me while out in public, I’m a massive shower (5-6” flaccid) everyone thinks I’m like 9” but no, hehe. Goes to show most guys measure improperly, like why???

I was reading some sph stories here on reddit and let's say I gathered a lot of knowledge from the experiences there. I came to the conclusion that there are some cases that women really enjoy spending time with a penis they consider small or being honest they straight out like small penis and the amount of teasing opportunities it comes with it. I read situations where the girl hinted at his size in the middle of friends and no one understood only both of them (generally friends sometimes gfs) which brings some level of connection I have to admit.

What happens is that society tough women to value size more than anything that's why even a girl who likes the smaller side will not take the stand in public fearing reprisal from her friends whom will dub as her as an outlier. Believe me finding a woman that connects with you surpasses every inch in the world. FYI this is not a promo for sph or cuckhold behavior, I myself don't engage in that just wanted to give a perspective about the things I saw through the week!

Conclusion: Penis on the smaller side get love too!

Exactly what the title says, if you are overweight you need to lose it. Its all aesthetic, the less space your body takes up in the mirror/the camera is “negative space” that emphasizes your dick. I saw a nude video of myself I took when I was skinner and it genuinely looked huge. Not like ridiculously massive but it could pass for 7 inches. Im not sure if it actually was because every-time I measure (the correct way) I only wind up with 6 max but now I’m not sure if thats because my fat pad is just too way too meaty (im not even that fat either). But regardless it looked really big and long.

Also if you ever take a “log” dick pic, and are disappointed. Just simply flip the pic the other way! So its like you are looking at it from the “takers pov” instead of yours. I looked at mine and was like “this is literally not the same dick between my legs” LMAO. It’s a complete and total game changer. Honestly both of these things damn near almost completely cured my dysmorphia.

So i hope this helps you all

When i measure correctly, on top side of penis, fully hard etc: My nbp is 11.5-12 cm, my bp is almost 14 cm(hey, the fupa makes me feel fucking awful btw and i am not even a fat guy, sooooo fml i guess)

But what confuses me so bad is that I can grab my penis with BOTH hands and the dickhead actually peeks out. It's not concealed with my palm at all. And I am not grabbing from like, under the balls or whatever, or grabbing from too much below etc. No, my right hand just sits on my balls and the left hand is directly on top. And when i grab a ruler with both palms, it's like 15.5 cm!!!!!! So like, what? But it's not visible at all! So in the end, who cares really? I still look small since I got a small pouch on top of my penis...

But still, measuring fully bp showing 13.5 but my hands both being enough to grab it and show it be kinda 15 cm is so strange. And no, my hands are not small. Very average male hands.

so, technically this sounds completely fine, right? theres more:

she said that she doesnt need something like 7.8 inches (20 cm), and that a smaller one, like 6.3 inches (16 cm), is the minimum

alright, in what world is 6.3 inches a smaller one? im just gonna humiliate myself. is it even worth talking to that woman?

if im smaller than her minimum then certainly it will just hurt me when "it" happens?

What about you guys that do actually engage with women, how do you do it? Most of my sexual experience in life has been negative. I haven’t done anything with anyone in a very long time like 6+ years. I’m 25. Kinda kept myself away from women for a long time. I guess….. I’m scared that’s not gonna change.

When i measure myself bone pressed, I am almost 14 cm. Or sometimes even 14 cm if I am perfectly hard. Which is good. I like that. As a gay man, that's a perfect size. I would not care too much if a size queen called it small even.

But the thing is. I have some fupa. Well, a lot of it actually. I am not even a fat guy, just a bit chubby, skinny fat perhaps; but my fupa is like, making me look like my dick is only 11-12 cm. That's how much I measure nbp and it feels so awful. I was insulted for my size 5-7 times as well. Recently as well btw, which is the reason for this post kinda...

I used to think my dick is small, but really, I am starting to think it's the fupa.

But I just don't feel good being naked. I am even considering going celibate sometimes.

And yes, I slept with 45+ men and yes, some did say I was an alright top and some few guys even came when I was inside them. But my body image is now so bad that I feel like they were just lying. Cause I mean, very few people are into small dicks, right? Most people can just take an average/above average dick no problem? Especially people with vaginas?

And hey, I'll be controversial. Does bone-pressed even matter? People will say "Oh the fat pad moves away when you're pushing blabla" but not really? Mine feels hard and less squishy? I don't really feel it squishing down tbh???? Idk. Bone-pressed does feel like something we do just to feel confident. No, I don't care if the science measures it bone-pressed.

All that being said, at least my girth is nice I think? 12,5cm