r/attitudinalpsyche

1. I'm a really lazy person. Sometimes I let my room get messy just because I'm too lazy to clean it up. But at the same time, I deliberately didn't clean it up because I felt my own mess did not bother my comfort. However, I get easily disturbed and disgusted with other's mess.
2. I'm not really a materialistic person, but I do believe that I need to get rich and stable in the future to achieve true happiness lol.
3. I don't hesitate to share my things with others, as long as they do the same. I'm just stingy if someone doesn't want to do the same.
4. I also don't hesitate to borrow or ask for things from my friends (like food, books, etc.) I'm even sometimes labeled as greedy because I ask for too much food.
5. I don't like to show off my possessions or wealth (because in my environment, people who do this are always shunned). But I prefer to show off my physical appearance or physical abilities.
6. I'm usually not afraid to try new things. But if I feel like it's not to my liking, I'll leave it alone. I don't like activities that drain my energy and mood, so I usually will strongly avoid invitations to do these activities.
7. I'm a person who is perhaps... a bit picky. As I said before, I'm open to trying new things, so this also applies to food. However, if I'm forced to eat something I hate, I'd rather starve (unless I was really hungry)
8. Sometimes I don't have a personal preference for something, so I always ask other people for advice. I buy things based on function and utility because I don't want to waste my money.
9. I rarely change my habits, unless someone really bullies me into changing them.
10. Since I'm a lazy person, I hate it when someone disturbs my comfort. I don't see other's responsibility as mine, so I'm not bothered to do it. I get annoyed when people criticize the way I do things or the way I organize things.
11. I always indulge in physical comfort such as eating and sleeping. Sometimes I have to lock myself in during fasting so I don't eat, or freeze myself so I don't sleep.

I am interested cause I basically used to be Infp but I noticed that I am more rational, logical and emotionally dry than most Infps which made me lean more towards Intp. But I don’t want typing, I just want to see how you see the both these combinations, especially the first one cause it is more unusual.

I think she's high F and E but I'm not sure. I can't figure out what her type too.. (if you could figure out her enneatype I'd be grateful)

Physics:
I always thought that she was a 2F because she likes excursions, especially old buildings and other stuff. She's active and hates dirt. But now I think she might be 1F because when Me or my Dad (both 1F3V) leave a kitchen dirty she blows up.
She always trying to feed me some new food even though I don't like it. My mom is an optimistic person and that's not in her nature to stay sad for a long time. She gets offended when someone doesn't like her outfit or her appearance. That's strange because as a 1F myself, I don't care what others say about my beauty because I know that I'm pretty. She doesn't really like sports but in order to stay fit, she does some exercises every morning. She hates when her things are touched without her permission. She's kinda into art, but hates modern art. She has no problem with singing or dancing with someone.
She's hardworking not because she likes to work, but because she likes to chill and doesn't like procrastination, so sometimes I can find her working till night.
If someone had a hobby she thinks is useless (for example playing computer games) she says that they have a lot of free time, in a bad way.
Sometimes I think that my mom doesn't have any physical fears at all! (like spiders or height).

Volution:
I think she's 4V. She avoids accusing people directly. For example, when her towel is used, she always says "who touched my towel!??" even tho it's obvious it was dad and not me, but she's still don't say that to dad.
She's easy to influence. My dad has recently started counting calories and my mom started doing it too.
She doesn't mind being a leader in a group, but I'm not sure whether she likes it. When she has a trip with a family or friends, she's the one who makes plans where to go, where to eat etc. But she said that if someone else also has a plan she's okay with following it.
My mom is protective of her loved ones. When someone bothers me she immediately lashes out at them. She stands up for herself too.
She is not competitive at all. If there's a game in groups, she prefers to follow rather than lead.
She doesn't care about other people at all if that's not her loved ones. I feel like she has an average self-esteem. She doesn't try to be someone she isn't. But she can be a people pleaser. She doesn't like fighting with other people so she wants other to see her as a kind, joyful and caring person.
She respects other people and wants them to treat her as sacrificially as she treats them. When she wants to meet up with someone she can reschedule her plans just to hang out with someone. But very few people do it in return.. It makes her feel upset. She treats people like they treat her.

Logics:
My mom loves detectives. She likes to think over who's the murdered and so on. She loves learning something new and taking some courses. My mom likes trying new things. Likes to read. When there's a topic she's doesn't know, she tries not to join a conversation. She hates when someone gives her advises in her sphere, especially if that person don't know what they're talking about.
She falls out with people, even tho she isn't a confrontational person.
She doesn't really like "imagine that" questions.
There's been a lot situations when she told things she shouldn't. She overshares with random people and that scares me sometimes.. She speaks before thinking at times.

Emotion:
She is emotional. When there's opportunity to cry over a film she cries. Not hysterically, just drops some tears but that still counts as a cry. She's very empathetic. She's aware of others feelings and doesn't like to hurt anyone. I wouldn't say she's manipulative.
When she has a bad mood she can take it out on someone. But she works on herself and always ready for a conversation to sort things out.
When someone tells her a story and checks on her emotions she reacts with her facial expressions. She feels others pain. When I need emotional support I know she will give it to me 100%.
She can match a mood of group.
Everybody likes her and if her friends are fighting, she's the one who tries to do something about it, even though nobody asked.
She has no problem with being in the centre of attention, but she doesn't overshadow anyone.
She's an easy going person.

Love my mom

(I apologize if there's any mistakes. English is not my first language lmao)