r/Taurus

So I (30+, Scorpio, F) have been seeing a 50+ Taurus M for about 3 months, very consistently. He’s great and provides all the reassurance that he is into me. There is effort and consistency where we have seen each other almost every week since we met, for multiple days at a time. Texting wise we are not so great, but he doesn’t ignore me or anything it’s just both of us are not big texters.

Problem is, I feel like he still hides me from him circle. Like not really as in introducing me because I understand that takes time, but he also hides me as in I don’t exist. I don’t think anyone is aware he is seeing someone. He will go out of his way to make sure I stay hidden. We spent his birthday together and he mentioned to everyone he was spending time with him “friend” and sometimes even “friends” instead of just saying it’s with the girl he’s seeing. Maybe the person on the other end was aware but I didn’t like how he did that. In the past he’s tried to drop off things to his family so they don’t come by when I’m at his place, has picked up stuff from them, has kept me very secluded from his overall life. I understand the need for privacy but isn’t that weird?

We meet and go out and have a great sexual life. But I’m starting to feel like I’m in a FWB situation rather than something worth building. I like him a lot and I can tell he likes me, but I don’t want to waste time if this is how he’ll be. I’ve tried to talk to him about it, and he’s said he’s not had a long term for a long time so he takes more time which I’m willing to wait for. I don’t have the issue with being patient, especially knowing he’s not had many serious relationships and he’s at an age where it’s hard to adjust with others. My issue is why hide if you are dating someone. It’s one thing to not introduce the person but it’s another to hide my stuff in the bathroom so when his friends or family are over they don’t see it. That to me is weird and honestly a bit shady.

I feel bad saying it’s shady since he’s such a good guy with not a single bad bone in his body but I truly cannot help feeling weird about the overall situation in my gut. Like something is definitely off, my intuition tells me this is not something worth investing more time in but my heart likes him so much I want to know if there is any hope and if I’m overthinking?

Edit to add: he’s talked about marriage to me, talked about it having kids, asked how things would go if we continued on my end, asked about how my family would react and openly said he’d like to get married within a year if this works.

Hi! I’m looking for some honest insight, especially from Taurus women or anyone familiar with Taurus energy in dating.

I’m 34F (Aquarius sun, Virgo moon, Scorpio rising, with a 6x Capricorn stellium), and I’ve been seeing a 30F Taurus (very late Taurus, basically cusp energy).

We’re both women (wlw), and this started off with really strong chemistry; both emotionally and physically.

We’ve gone on a couple of dates so far, and they’ve been really intentional and well-planned on both ends. She’s shown up, been present, engaged, and the connection feels very real in person. There’s definitely been PDA, affection comes naturally between us. Our dates tend to end pretty intensely (lots of physical chemistry, kissing, lingering goodbyes, etc.), and it doesn’t feel surface-level when we’re together.

Texting-wise, it hasn’t been constant, but it has been warm and engaged. She’s responsive when she’s available, asks questions, checks in, and has supported me around important things going on in my life (like family/interview stuff). She’s also acknowledged when she’s stressed or less responsive and has apologized for it in the past.

Here’s where I’m confused:

Last week, she told me she was really stressed with work and wasn’t as responsive. I showed up supportively (even did something thoughtful for her), and she reacted very warmly and appreciatively.

This week, I tried to plan our next date. She hearted my iMessage, but responded saying her week is “insane,” work is piling up, she has big meetings she’s leading and she’s leaving town soon. There was no follow-up suggestion or reschedule, just that she’s overwhelmed.

Since then, communication has basically stopped. I didn’t wana crowd her or stress her further so I haven’t texted anything as well. It’s been a few days of silence(trying to play it cool with her but it’s killing me).

What’s throwing me off is:

The in-person energy is very strong

She has shown interest and investment before

She’s capable of being warm and communicative

But now there’s a noticeable drop-off with no effort to reconnect or plan ahead

I’m trying not to overreact, but I also don’t want to ignore a potential shift.

So I guess my questions are:

Is this typical Taurus behavior when overwhelmed (going quiet and resurfacing later)?

Does this read as someone still interested but needing space, or someone slowly disengaging?

Should I give space and let her come back, or is it reasonable to check in again?

I don’t need constant texting, but the sudden silence after consistent engagement is what’s throwing me.

Would love honest perspectives; especially from Taurus women or anyone who dates them.

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