r/SFr4r

I am DDF, 30 year old M who stays in shape. I have a pic in my profile. I am tested regularly, expect you to be tested recently as well.

I will be in SF for a work conference from 4/20-4/21 with a room to myself. Would love to meet up for drinks with a lovely lady and potentially provide some post work fun. Not looking for reciprocation, just looking to dive for a night lol. Im open to women of all shapes and sizes, would love if you can have a good conversation haha. Attraction is important, so please be willing to exchange pics.

PS: I am in Sacramento, so open to ladies in Sacramento or central valley as well for something consistent lol

Hey! 31 years old, white, 5’8, 160 lbs, ddf. Looking for a pillow princess who will let me spend hours pleasing her! Open to all levels of experience. If you’re more experienced, guide me through what really sets you off. If you’re inexperienced, let’s explore what makes you tick 🙂.

I’m fine with no reciprocation - I will not pressure you to do anything at any point, and certainly would do everything I can to help you feel safe and comfortable.

Please be ddf and ready to be pleased. I have my own place near Stonestown and can host!

Do you need to relax? Need a sensual massage with great music? I have 420 (if you like), alcohol (if you like).... candles, if it is evening. Sensual music.

I'm a fit, intelligent SWM with an able tongue and dexterous fingers, I'm looking to give pleasure.

Please contact me (with a pic and description) for further details and questions.

Please be serious and be able to come to me or host. Available some weeknights also.

Bored and alone this rainy day - anyone down to help each other pass some time this wet evening? We could just chat here on reddit, or meet for a rainy walk and get to know each other, then potentially warm each other up somewhere inside and cozy if we're both feeling it. Also down to just flirt remotely with someone cute. I am a tall, white, handsome, bearded, curious, kind male. Send me a chat request and we'll take it from there!

For slim to fit men with nice cocks that could use a helping hand to help them release. Enjoy teasing you and edging you with hands, toys, or more, and giving an oiled / lotioned relaxing rub for your back, glutes, and arms.

in sf

Heya, lovely women of san francisco!!

29 yo brown dude living in North Beach.

Quick bio: 5'11" 145 lbs, slim, athletic build, and conventionally good looking.

One kink that i'll highlight about me is that I'm a boobs guy thru and thru. Hardcore ANR enthusiast. Nothing turns me on more than suckling boobies for hours, I can suckle on them for hours together without a break. I absolutely love the intimacy that ANR brings without the experience being completely sexual. Love the sensuality that it adds to the experience as opposed to raw sexual fun, which don't get me wrong, I enjoy it too, but I love ANR so much.

For the unacquainted, what I like to do is latch on to your breasts and suckle on them for a while. Like for example, I'll suckle on your left breast and play with your right breast and keep switching them up every now and then, so I don't drain out only one of your breasts. So my hands will mostly be occupied with breast play, but I'm okay to finger you if you'd like. My mouth will be switching between gobbling your breasts up and sucking your pussy dry. Your hands will be completely free so you can do as you please, you can masturbate or you can stroke my dick.

The last person who I had an ANR session with was into was curious about experiencing ANR freeuse, which included things like me playing with her boobs while she watched an episode from a TV show, or read a book another time while I was suckling her, and even watched porn on one occasion. We should def connect if experiences like these turn you on!

36, 5’10, 180, East Asian - easy going, active, and always down for something fun.

I’m mostly running short distance to clear my head, on the court getting shots up, or occasionally at the gym daydreaming. Basketball’s been part of my life. It’s my way to have fun at the same time. Running keeps me balanced, especially after a long day. I’m not training for a marathon or anything, just like staying in shape and feeling good and have my heart rate under 150 most of the time. I am also a gamer and tend to be more competitive in games than sports, but rarely play now.

Outside of that, I’m a huge foodie. I’m the type who plans trips around what to eat, not just what to see. I’m always down to explore if it doesn't involve a lot of walking.

I’d say I’m pretty laid-back and straightforward. I enjoy good conversation, but I’m also totally fine just chilling, watching something, or going for a short walk or a run. I travel a few times a year and nothing crazy, but enough to keep life interesting and it’d be great to have someone to share that with.

Looking for someone who’s easy to be around, has a good sense of humor, and like to just get along. Whether it’s shooting around, walking around, just hanging out or watching something, I’m all about good vibes and seeing where things go.

Send me a picture if you are interested and prefer someone in the east bay or downtown sf area or nearby or someone willing to travel.

PS you can be big spoon too if you like :)

Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 27, athletic, and I like to think attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!

I often run in Golden Gate Park. It often feels like half the city do their runs along jfk or mlk drive.

Looking for a distance runner who’d enjoy other activities before or after their run; preferably outside. I have a bit of an outdoor / public setting kink and I’d love it if you did too.

We live in a gorgeous city and should take advantage of it to the fullest extent possible.

Hey! 31 years old, white, 5’8, 160 lbs, ddf. Looking for a pillow princess who will let me spend hours pleasing her! Open to all levels of experience. If you’re more experienced, guide me through what really sets you off. If you’re inexperienced, let’s explore what makes you tick 🙂.

I’m fine with no reciprocation - I will not pressure you to do anything at any point, and certainly would do everything I can to help you feel safe and comfortable.

Please be ddf and ready to be pleased. I have my own place near Stonestown and can host!

Hi friends - I’ll be in the city for work in a couple weeks and I’d love to share some of my skills with you. I’ve had several fantastic successes in past, so here’s to another chance!

The details:

I’ve got some melanin, relatively slim, 5’ 8”, 160lbs. I’ve picked up some fairly solid masseuse skills over the years, and I’d love to be able to melt someone’s stress away. I’m married, so this would require utmost discretion. I don’t have an agenda beyond giving you a massage, because my love language is truly making other people happy.

As for how it might go? You or I would procure some type of oil for the massage, you’d come to my hotel room, we’d lay down several towels on the bed, and you’d dress down to the level you’re comfortable. I’d work on whatever specific pain points you’d like me to focus on (particularly good with backs) for as long as you’d like. Happy to give you a happy ending as well, if you’d like (and feel free to bring a toy if interested). Once you feel like you’ve had enough, you can be on your way.

What do I get out of this? I get to make someone feel relaxed / happy. Candidly, this is something I’d mentally get off too, which is all I really need. I may be visibly hard through the massage, but I’m perfectly comfortable with you completely ignoring that.

If this sounds interesting to you, feel free to reach out. Cheers.

I live near sfsu and looking for some quick head. No reciprocation. I’m mixed but mostly Filipino, 140lbs fit dad bod with 6in daddy dick that needs draining. Message me with your stats and only if you’re available right now

Say hello if you are seeking a good coffee, conversations, and oral fun. I am recently tested and clean (and will use protection) and expect the same.

I am a dom and willing to experiment switching to explore the other side. If you are someone who likes safe, clean, respectful, sensual, consistent, ongoing fun HMU.

I am into oral play, body worship, vanilla and kink, aftercare, cuddles. To avoid dealing with flakes, verification is a must. Let me know your favorite movie in DMs and we go from ther

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)

49 married male here…Wide awake and should be sleeping since I work in the morning. anyone else in the same boat and in the mood to connect? I’m open minded and willing to chat about any topic or whatever is on your mind. We can take turns asking each other questions and make a game out of it.

Normal yet adventurous and love to flirt and engage in witty banter. Shall we share confessions or guilty pleasures?

Let’s start by you sharing a little about yourself and your favorite guilty pleasure subreddit? :)

Looking for a cuddle, nursing and intense make out session. Let's vibe check over a chat. If the energy's right, we can get cozy after. Please be respectful, clean, and emotionally intelligent. I want a space where we can both let go & deeply relax. Let’s go back to the teenage days. It could be a one time or an ongoing thing. Bonus points if you smell nice and give good hugs.

Hey everyone!

25m here pretty new to my sexuality but I’m looking for someone in Marin open to regularly trading head or even just allowing me to explore with them. Age isn’t the biggest hangup for me but would prefer someone around my age. Open to more then just head but would like to start there. I’m 6 foot, 7” around 200lbs. Would love to see if anyone’s open, please feel free to DM. Also my PFP isn’t me BTW

I'd like to give a full body massage that melts away your stress and tension while awakening your arousal. Tired muscles untangled, your mind clears as you give yourself over to skilled hands. You start to notice how much you're enjoying being touched, having someone focused on discovering your body, and decide to let your arousal flow. A soft moan escapes your lips, almost unconsciously expressing your enjoyment. Your mind starts to wander towards desire, anticipating my next stroke, curious how it will feel in your state of heightened arousal. New sensitivities emerge, almost as if you're rediscovering your own body and the heights of your pleasure.

I've practiced massage for years, including a brief past in orthopedic medicine and physical therapy. I know what I'm doing as the accumulated stress of your day / week / month of sports or regular activities disappear. The interconnectedness of your body's tensions are much better addressed when boundaries of professionalism are removed, allowing long strokes over your back to glide onto your glutes or tracing adductors up your inner thigh.

Massage can also be a deeply relaxing way to focus on your pleasure without planning your next move of reciprocation. Skilled hands gradually earning more access to your body. Relaxation so deep your thoughts start to wander in an almost meditative bliss as you explore emerging desires. There's no need to hold back your arousal, overthink letting desire flow, or wonder if someone is enjoying your body or your performance. The focus is entirely on you, discovering your body, and realizing new heights of relaxation and pleasure.

I'm 43, single, straight, discreet, respectful, and able to host in San Francisco near the Cow Hollow area or meet at a local spa. I'm a former soccer player and frequent hiker, giving me a special understanding of your tired legs and glutes. I've experienced and learned massage during my travels around the world, continually integrating new styles and techniques. When not giving massages I enjoy watching movies, training dogs, hiking in redwood forests, and trying new restaurants.

I understand meeting someone can be a bit intimidating. You might hesitate, dismissing the experience you'd like to have as out of reach or too good to be true. A few women I have massaged in the past have left comments in my previous posts on my profile offering to share their experiences and help ease the hesitation of getting to know a relative stranger. I'd like to learn more about the experience you'd like to have, your unique sources of stress and tension, and answer any curiosities over chat.

Have you wished you could experience a massage with fewer restraints, where your entire body was a canvas ready to be discovered and reshaped? Would you like to explore an experience completely focused on you, where your mind is free to wander, and desires emerge in an almost meditative bliss? Say hello and let's craft an experience of full relaxation and slow, emerging arousal.