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Experience in NYC as a straight male?

Experience in NYC as a straight male? Just downloaded it because I saw it mentioned on another sub. The reviews didn't paint it in the best light but I wonder if I have an advantage for being in a major city.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 17 hours ago

On the surface, life is stable—no major issues in the relationship, we get along fine. But the lack of physical intimacy and genuine touch has started to weigh on me more as I get older. It’s not just about sex—it’s about connection, chemistry, and feeling desired.

I’m at a point where I don’t want to ignore that part of life anymore.

About me: well-educated (Engg + MBA), well-travelled, grounded, and respectful. I value discretion, mutual understanding, and emotional maturity.

What I’m looking for: someone mature, open-minded, and emotionally aware—whether that’s a like-minded woman or a couple. Open to building something based on chemistry, comfort, and clear boundaries (FWB or similar dynamics).

No pressure—happy to start with a conversation, see if there’s a vibe, and take it from there.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out.

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u/versatilevd — 12 days ago

Had been chatting with a lady. For nearly two days it was really really nice. Good flow to conversation etc... out of.the blue a little bit ago she deleted her profile. Tbh I'm a little devastated. She was from Missouri.

If she's out there and wants to connect. I'm here

Barron.

(Edit: area and formating)

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u/Novel-Salt2 — 13 days ago