r/LavenderMarriageIndia

Hi, I’m a 26 year old man from Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu.

About me: • Gender: Male • Sexuality: Bisexual (more inclined toward men) • Profession: Involved in running my family’s real estate business • Lifestyle: Non-vegetarian, very active (fitness, sports, marathons, trekking) • Background: Hindu • Financially stable and well-settled

I’m someone who enjoys an adventurous life, I love traveling and plan to do at least one international trip every year. I value experiences, staying fit, and making the most out of life. I also come from a warm, supportive family who are easygoing and loving.

What I’m looking for: I’m seeking a lavender marriage / mutually understanding partnership with a woman who shares a similar outlook on life.

• A lesbian or bisexual woman • Open to anywhere in India (Tamil Nadu preferred, but not a restriction) • Age range: 18–26 (flexible based on compatibility) • Someone who values companionship, mutual respect, and emotional understanding

What I envision: I’m looking for a genuine best-friend-like partnership where we support each other, live together with mutual respect, and build a stable, happy life, while also having the freedom to explore our own individual romantic/sexual lives without judgment, based on clear boundaries and honesty.

At the same time, I would like to have a biological child together and raise them as equal partners, providing them with a loving, secure, and fulfilling environment.

Expectations: • Honesty, trust, and clear communication • A practical and mature approach toward marriage as a social structure • Openness to discussing boundaries, personal space, and long-term plans • Ability to maintain a socially comfortable partnership while respecting individuality

I’m happy to openly discuss aspects like living arrangements, family expectations, and future goals in a transparent and respectful way.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out or DM.

Thanks!

Hi, I’m a 26F currently based in the U.S., living with my girlfriend, and looking for a lavender marriage due to family expectations.

I’m seeking a mutual, respectful arrangement where we both maintain our independent lives, with occasional appearances together for family events. Discretion, clarity, and mutual understanding are important.

Please only reach out if you:

• Are currently in the U.S. or can relocate independently (no visa sponsorship)
• Are vegetarian
• Are not seeking immigration/green card benefits

This is a genuine marriage of convenience, not for romance or legal/immigration purposes.

If this aligns with what you're looking for, feel free to DM with a brief intro about yourself.