r/LDSintimacy

My wife is pregnant and about to have the baby in a couple weeks. She hasn’t been in the mood at all during this entire pregnancy and I am dying! Any help here would be greatly appreciated. Idk what I’m even asking for. I know I’m being petty too. I really love her and appreciate everything she’s doing for our new baby, so it’s not lost on me the sacrifice she’s made. I guess just want someone to validate my position a little.

I don’t really know how to do it properly as I’ve never really liked fingering because of a traumatic incident so I’ve never explored it myself or with my past relationships. But lately I’ve been thinking about it, I used a toy but I’ve been feeling like using my own fingers? How to do it pls don’t be weird about it