r/Hyderabadgirlshangout

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Hi!

When did adulthood become so isolating and lonely?

Making real friends as an adult is painful because it takes so much effort and consistency and constantly figuring out schedules and all that jazz.

Anyway, if you’re in the same boat and looking for actual friendships, I would appreciate DMs or comment here so I can reach out.

My goal is to build a small group so none of us have to worry about getting coffee once in a while or go grab a beer from time to time with whoever is available.

Also, personally, west Hyderabad meetups would be ideal because it’s just easier to move around as there are so many more options in comparison.

NOTE: This post is ONLY for people looking for genuine platonic connections.

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u/fightfly1 — 11 days ago
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(Hyderabad) Commissioner Sumathi goes undercover to catch predators. Take a bow🛐

It was 12:30am. A girl was standing at an empty bus stop – alone, waiting for a ride home. In the stillness of the night, the predators of the city came out crawling. It began with the catcalls, the sharp whistles and the ‘teasing’ comments thrown from passing bikes. Then, the shadows grew closer. They circled her one-by-one, their voices dripping with a mix of mockery and malice. ‘Hey, beautiful, rate kya hai?’ ‘Madam company du kya?’ Some didn’t even bother with words; they just lingered too close, their breath reeking of cheap liquor and ganja. Every four minutes, a new stranger felt entitled to a piece of her peace. For 180 minutes, she endured it all. She absorbed the lewd whispers, the persistent following, and the ‘accidental’ brushes that weren’t accidents at all. She watched as students and professionals, sons and brothers, turned into hunters the moment they thought they were invisible. They never realized they were the ones being hunted. The trap snapped shut when her team of police officers moved in, and the ‘hunters’ suddenly found themselves staring into the cold, surgical gaze of Commissioner Sumathi. The woman they had spent the night teasing wasn’t a victim, she was a 2001-batch IPS officer who had spent 20 years navigating jungles and handling top-tier intelligence. As the former head of the Special Intelligence Branch, she had orchestrated the surrender of hundreds of Maoists. But she knew that the most pervasive war isn’t fought with guns, it’s fought under flickering streetlamps against the casual cruelty of ‘ordinary’ men. So, that night as the Commissioner of Malkajgiri, when she revealed her identity, the bravado that fueled their taunts evaporated into trembling excuses. Her mission wasn’t to fill jail cells, but to shatter a culture of silence. She forced them into counseling rooms, stripping away their anonymity and making them confront the reality that women aren’t objects or prey for them to hunt or toy with. Sumathi stood in the dark so that one day, the night would belong to everyone, and no woman would ever have to wait in fear again.

u/AmplifierXD_ — 5 days ago

So we had a devil wears Prada date night ! Some of us dressed up and some (me) was washed up in heat and sweat by the time we reached theatre ! Had the chai while waiting for everyone to arrive ! Took pics in the theatre . Meryl Streep , Anne Hathaway, Emily blunt were funnnn to watch. Didn’t remember much of the original but insta kept throwing so clips , the revision was easy. None of wore cerulean blue though . Went for dinner . Super fun girls hangout… updating our insta @hyderabad_girls_hangout. That’s all !

u/cloudsandtreks — 12 days ago
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Another day another Tinder SCAM

The un blurred ones were scam matches I got.

Most of the recent tinder matches turned out to be potential scammers 🤦🏻‍♂️ all are verified profiles too.

u/LoneWolfInCity — 6 days ago
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So I 24F am in the process of breaking up with my boyfriend 28M like in the figuring it out and like discussing things, but I don’t know what to do. We were dating for two years and he’s a really nice guy. He’s amazing like I have no complaints in any of the specs, but I have a few concerns with it which I’ll point

  1. ⁠I come from a very very conservative family and my parents have given up a lot for me and when I spoke to my mom that I was in a relationship with a guy she was heartbroken and she told that like there’s no way for accepted and it’s gonna like really affect that and all that which I know is true because they have gone a lot because of me and like I am the most loved child, they really really love me a lot.
  2. ⁠I feel I am not attracted towards him physically anymore. our sex life feels like almost non-existent.
  3. ⁠nothings exciting me anymore mentally. I am in a very tough spot right now like I know, I am very, very vulnerable right now, dealing with clinical depression

So what do I do. Did I do a right thing. I feel very hurt right now.
Also he doesn’t know that I told my mom. And I told her last night which triggered all these things
From India

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u/Wonderful-Amoeba3173 — 12 days ago
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I'm a super bored 25F, who speaks reasonably good Telugu. Love books, shopping, sports and gym. I've been told I'm a very interesting person!.

Let's hit up some mall in the morning, hangout, have lunch and just a chill day.

Also, I see people playing badminton in the group, so if you need a player, hmu!!!

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u/Haunting-Calendar322 — 13 days ago

40F ..too old for this group? :)

Edited to add: @Men - No, not interested. Don't even bother. -_____________

Most of my friends are in other cities or busy with family/kids. I am also relatively new to Hyderabad.

So checking out reddit to see I can hit it off with someone here.

Some things about me to get started - I am childfree by choice, married, work in a non-IT field, listen more than I speak in a group, can't dance for shit, love margaritas, and am in a toxic relationship with a cat.

Just a disclaimer: Childfree by choice does not mean that I hate kids. Decided not to have kids for multiple reasons. But must admit that being around kids generally drains me. Only exception I make are for my friends...I love my friends and therefore by relation their kids.

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u/Typical_Maize758 — 7 days ago

There's so much in my head and I am seriously unable to figure out things ... Idek if this is the right place to post this . But things are getting on my nerves . I need to get off this somehow .. ( AND MEN PLEASE DON'T DM ME )

If someone's looking forward to having a conversation or hearing me out please DM me ( ONLY WOMEN )

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u/falconslays — 13 days ago

Just a context switch. Girls are doing too great in studies. These boys/men are behind us calling us "Mommy", "Dear" asking for meetups to satisfy their irritations.

u/sooryakantam — 13 days ago
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SCAM ALERT - This page took 2k for jewellery around mid March and haven't delivered yet.

Every time I ask them - tomorrow or today or a particular date but never dispatch.

Number - +919392134954

YouTube Channel - Jessica collections

REPORT THIS PAGE IF POSSIBLE

Not providing refund

Not delivering product

Just irritating the hell out of me.

2k is not a huge amount but in case someone orders more than you are risking it out.

u/GyaanIsEverything — 6 days ago

NEED FRIENDS!!!

Hello, I'm 19F and pretty new to reddit. I feel so bored and all my friends seem busy with their families going to functions and fancy trips. I'm looking for someone to talk to and see if we can vibe and genuinely just have some fun, so feel free

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u/Significant_Basil175 — 7 days ago
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26M (almost 27). I’m from Hyderabad. Been through a rough breakup, so now I value something real over something fast.

I’m someone who connects deeply, but I don’t believe in judging vibes in 1–2 days. The good stuff takes a little time, so I’d love to build it naturally: friends that leads to dating then something meaningful.

No location barrier at all, but if you’re in Hyderabad, that’s a nice bonus.

Just one thing—please reach out only if you actually have the patience and energy to build a connection. Not here for timepass, just something genuine and easy going.

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u/Aromatic-Earth-1901 — 12 days ago

Played after a break and felt so good. The summer is really tiring us out people! get your hydration . We played well and had our regular Indian breakfast. Swach doesnt serve pesarattu ladies ! 😡 But had idli Sambhar dosa and coffee ! We plain idli podi idli and button idli … idli fest today 🤣

u/cloudsandtreks — 14 days ago

HELP!!!

21F, currently looking for co-living spaces or a flatmate to rent a flat with (females only).

Preferred locations: Banjara Hills, Jubilee Hills, or Madhapur, any of these work.

Requirements:
• AC is a must
• Looking for a comfortable and well-maintained place

Budget: ₹15,000–18,000 per month

If anyone has leads for good co-living spaces or is looking for a female flatmate to share a flat, please let me know. Would really appreciate any help!

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u/Shakeslay31_ — 9 days ago