r/FertilityRealTalk

Im in Ireland and I’m 8dp5dt (4AA fresh) - I didn’t test this morning but found out on Friday evening I was pregnant, did a digital test on Saturday (himself couldn’t see a line🙄) and did one yesterday evening which was darker so figured this morning would be much the same as yesterday evening. My clinic said to test in 16 May - which is this coming Saturday.
Do I tell the clinic already? I was going to wait until Saturday in case anything changed during the week. What’s the next steps in this process once I’ve let them know? Is it another TWW or will I be brought in for bloods or a scan?
Also - when will I stop testing 😂 Defo doing one Wed & Fri and have a digital test for weeks to take maybe Sunday when I’m 2 weeks post transfer.
My Oura ring isn’t showing up much either. Sleep is definitely less restful and my temps are up but they’d be up anyway from the PIO.
Trying to remain calm is tough, I just wanna know

Just got a call from our fertility clinic. Out of 12 doner eggs, 10 thawed on Monday and 7 fertilised by Wednesday. 5 are maturing really really well which is day 3. The other two are also maturing but not as well.
Day 5 & transfer day is Sunday. I’m 39, 40 this year. Perimenopausal so these are doner eggs.
Can I hear any advice/results from anyone in the same position? Do you think we’ll end up with 5 by day 5? I was getting my periods fairly regularly, just didn’t have any follicles in my ovaries unfortunately - so I like to think I should be ok with the transfer hopefully 😭
Also anxious about bonding with the baby, comparing the baby to my family etc
Help