r/Fertility

I just got my results back Thursday and I am spiraling. I also have hashimotos disease and had always been a little anxious about fertility, but I want nothing more than to be a mom one day. At this current phase of my life it’s not an option even if I wanted it to be. But based on some of the numbers I’m seeing I don’t even know if it’s worth pursuing or if I would even get any significant number of eggs to freeze. Very new to this whole process and just trying to take in all the information. If anyone has any suggestions for additional tests I should pursue or things to address when I do meet with a fertility specialist, I would love to hear them!

Me and my wife, have been trying for almost 4 years, properly trying for the last 2, unfortunately miscarried in March 2025, been trying every ovulation window since but still no luck.

According to all tests me and my wife are absolutely fine, no reason we cannot conceive but it's just not happening for us.

What's people's advice on IVF, aware it's very expensive, what's the process like? Ultimately it's our decision but any thoughts? Any advice? Are we being impatient?

Appreciate anyone's input 🙂