r/FemmeLesbians

All my life I've been misunderstood, they always accuse me of being straight because of my very feminine personality/style/tastes. Over time, it becomes very annoying to have to come out all the time, not to mention that this has always made my journey of finding a romantic partner difficult. It was always men who approached me and never women, and since I'm super shy, I couldn't approach them either. I still suffer a bit from this, and I wanted to "look" more gay just to take this burden off and improve my love life

I’m a 31 year old service top femme and it is so incredibly hard to find other femmes or pillow princesses. I tried a few dating apps and attract mainly mascs, is there any recommendations for dating apps or maybe dating discord servers?

Having such a gorgeous day harnessing divine feminine energy 🥰✨ feeling so connected with you all and wishing I could just pounce each and every one of you through the phone 🥰💕 xoxo

Anyway, bye, love youuu

Like please where are all the dom femmes who are also interested in a real long-term relationship.

I find it so hard to find any ,and when I do start talking to someone, they just end up ghosting me.

It's so hard 😫

Such a curse being a femme attracted to femme woman. 😭🤤🥵 a little drunk so bear in mind, but godddd is it painful to meet a girl and realize they’re “straight”.

OMG I’M DYING OF GIDDINESS AND HAVE TO TELL SOMEBODY. Thank you, internet.

I went to the queer bar later than usual last night. It was packed, but I don’t usually have trouble getting up to the bar and ordering a drink, and I didn’t anticipate issues despite the crowd because the bartenders know me. What I was NOT anticipating was this suave butch sitting at the bar holding their arm out to clear a little path for me melts in femme 🫠

They were attentive and doting all night… lots of talking and kissing and dancing. And then cuddles. Excellent cuddles with no expectation of more. I’m smitten.

I look feminine on the outside. But I like to dress up both feminine and masculine. My hobbies, work, interests and personality is mixed as well. I am very knowledgeable in many different fields and I participate in both "masculine" and "feminine" hobbies, activities, work. Give me a title of this. I always wondered what would that even be called as. The only title I can come up with is just a diverse person. Or it is nulled just because I have long hair, have my nails done and wear piercings? Does that automatically categorize me as "Feminine" despite everything else?

I’m at a loss here. I live in a rural area. Where in Missouri do I find the single lesbians?

This might be a silly question but I’m very very new lol I’m wondering can lesbians spot other lesbians?
I’m asking because I’d love to know if I’m able to attract other lesbians? I hope’s this makes sense?

Older lesbians dating younger: What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned that you wish younger lesbians knew?

How do I get comfortable with being undressed in front of another girl? I’ve never been naked in front of another girl before. How do I become comfortable with it?

My breasts are small and I wonder what she’ll think when she sees them with no bra. I’m very self conscious about my body.

I know all women have the same body parts, but I’m still very insecure.