r/Farmingdale

Normally I ask questions on my main but this is a bit embarrassing to ask 😅 Ive been going here for almost 4 semesters and Ive been really struggling with making friends here. I talk to people in class or at work but it hasn't lead to any friendships and I also get nervous about asking for people's contact info so that we can talk outside of class and if I somehow DO somehow get that info we never say anything and I tried going to clubs but I just feel left out cuz it feels like everyone there knows each other Idk how people here do it... This year I've felt really close to making friends with people but with the semester about to end I feel like I'll probably end up never talking to the people I currently have classes with again because we haven't spoken much outsid of class even though I really want to but it's hard when everyone just wants to get out.

I’m a first-year student, so this is my first time hearing about Ramchella, and I was actually really excited to go. But I’m confused about why it’s scheduled during such a busy time. I understand that classes wouldn’t be canceled during finals week, but it still feels odd to plan a big event like this right now instead of on a weekend or earlier in the semester.

I have a lab practical as soon it starts and classes before hand so it’s frustrating because I might not even be able to enjoy it and will need to change into a whole another outfit and wanted to do that at home instead carrying everything on me. I just don’t really understand the timing and wish it had been planned differently. Let me know if it’s always been on a weekday because I honestly suggest they do it on weekend for everyone can have the chance to be able to go when it starts or whenever they want to come and not be stuck in class.