Last Sunday when I told my friend I was dating again (a month ago my 4 month situationship came to an end) she was excited and asked to give my number to her friend who has been single for a few months. I agreed, the same day this guy asked me for a spontaneous drink that evening, I went and we had a nice time and he asked if I wanted to go on a walk the next day. We went on the walk and that was also really nice... Then he texts me telling me he likes me a lot, he always replies to me quite quickly and this evening after I replied to a message he says he saw me typing as he was just rereading our messages? And follows by asking if I want to chat on the phone...
I just... I don't know what to do... In person he seems lovely but then he is just coming on waaay too strong seeing as we've only known eachother 4 days
I don't know if I should continue to give him a chance but just message him something like this... (see below) or just wait until I next see him to say something?
"Hey _, I'm sorry but could we maybe just sloow things down a bit? It takes me time to warm up to people and I feel like you're coming on a little too strong. We've only known each other a few days, there is no rushing things when getting to know someone or need to. I'm just feeling a bit of pressure from you and I worry you're getting too ahead already"
Ahh help...