Me and my husband are both Christians and he has recently told me he will never give me the password to his phone. He always has his phone in his pocket, never leaves it laying around. Is this normal? because I know if he asked me to see my phone or for my phone password I would gladly give it to him. Any advice would be helpful
I am a redevoted Christian who struggles with anger and when I’m stressed I drink beer (rarely get drunk) and smoke cigarettes. I’ve got a temper on me, I’m not aggressive but I’m mouthy and can be hurtful. I’m not perfect by any means and this relationship if full of imperfections. I feel like my mind is being toyed with.
When it comes to getting pregnant I don’t want to get into full details but I do think he’s “holding back” if that makes any sense to purposely not get me pregnant. I’m not sure though because I do struggle with PCOS in one ovary and I smoke. However I’ve felt guys before when they’ve tried to impregnate me and I don’t feel him when he says he is trying. Then he asks me if I am pregnant, and says baby related things before us having sex. Something’s telling me isn’t actually trying, that’s a deal breaker for me if it’s true and he knows that, so he’ll never tell unless he wanted me gone.
I do struggle with mental illness, in arguments he like to bring it up and try and say that it’s really my mental illness not the coincidences or facts I’ve observed.
He isn’t taking lead financially, he isn’t taking lead spiritually.
I’m struggling with bettering myself, and I feel like he is part of the reason it’s hard for me to focus on my spirituality and bettering myself independently.
There where commitments he said he would take part in like helping me get up in the mornings which partially has to do with mental status and just simple things like cooking with me that he said he would help me with. He also struggles with depression and I understand but honestly I don’t want to be in fear of constant dismissal or feeling like I’m forcing him to be a version of himself he doesn’t want to be.
I have more to point out with our relationship, I want advice from someone who is close with the spirit and can help me discern to the best of their ability what might be going on.
If you can help me please do, I’m struggling