I (24f) have a bf (27m) who is moving in with a female co worker of ours.
My bf and I started a job together at a sports bar and grill. Most of the employees there are women, especially the servers, bartenders, etc. My bf works in the kitchen on grill.
I am a server and have clicked with most of the girls I work with. One of the girls, we’ll call her Josie (26f), and I became fast friends. We’ll go to bars after work, drink, and chat. I introduced my bf to her, hoping we’d all be able to hangout together after work. We all hit it off with one another and get along well.
Josie mentioned she needed to find an apartment soon, since her dad gave her a deadline to move out. My bf also needed to find an apartment soon for a myriad of reasons. A lightbulb went off in my head. I figured since we all get along well, I wouldn’t mind them getting a place together.
I am not quite ready to move in with my bf yet. We’ve known each other for 7 months and don’t quite feel ready. I’m currently living with my parents rent free, and I’m using this time to save up money to put towards my car insurance, and since my car is giving me trouble, possibly a new car as well.
So, that leads to it just being my bf and Josie at the apartment, until I feel ready and able to move in with them. Since telling other co workers and friends that they’re going to be roommates, I’ve gotten quite a few “girl this is weird” and “you’re braver than me” comments. Obviously, I’m aware that anything can happen. I do however, trust my bf. He’s been very loyal since we’ve been together and honestly I’m unbothered. Josie and I get along and we’re really excited to have movie nights and friend sleepovers.
So, am I under reacting? Should I be more concerned?