r/AlwanJO

I’m just over straight guys who want to experiment! not for any reason besides most of the times they don’t even wanna do anything remotely fun! and getting together with someone is a mutual exchange of fun, some people in our community are into the straight guy thing but I honestly can’t stand it, they never commit to pleasing the other person and have too much privilege with honestly rarely anything to back it up with… thoughts?

So I met this girl a couple months ago and we have been dating bas in secret mostly. Whenever we go out in a group, she acts like she is homophobic. I understand if she doesn’t want people to know she’s gay bas I feel there’s no need to be purposefully against it. She is the one who brings it up aslan. Out of nowhere, she calls guys in the group f*ggot oo girls dy*e. Mosh fahme why she would feel the need to bring it up. Mosh it’s better to js avoid it all in all? Oo when I talk to her about it she says it’s better to avoid being found it. El shagle is our friends aren’t even like officially homophobic, we jus don’t rlly talk about being gay aslan. Should I just ignore it wela should i break up with her. Bcz tbh it makes me feel bad even when we are in private. Oo Ana I don’t try to publicly do anything with her. Even when I take her on dates, it’s not obvious. I only do what she is comfortable with so I don’t get it. Is it internalized homophobia? I feel eno ana I’m a very good gf and I just want a woman to love who loves me. And I sacrifice a lot for her fa I don’t feel I’m asking a lot of her when I ask her not to do that :/

i've met a few lesbian and bi girls in jordan but they're all mostly queerbaiters who don't really care for like queer culture or only want to have sex with girls and never really want to commit to anything. in my experience i've been asked to "help" ?? with how horny they are (mind u im 15 years old and they'd be grown) for the most part, like it's not like i don't care for the sex aspect of it but guys what happened to actually being in a relationship and like loving each other or whatever? i know they're not all like that okay it's just that i can't find anyone that's NOT like this.. guys if ur lesbian and around my age PLEASE lets be friends or atleast like help me find places to find other queer people

I'm a girl questioning my sexuality. I'd like to talk to a lesbian or bisexual girl...

if you're wondering why I'm posting this here, I'm just reaching to all jordanians out possible

I'm a masc fem and I'm bi btw but the text is neutral bc homophobes everywhere and I can't get in trouble 😕

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hey so I'm someone who doesn't believe in religion at all and I'm currently forced to wear the hijab etc and I can't go outside if not. it isn't an issue but, my father has been abusive for years.. I'm currently 17, tawjihi is soon and I need to find a way to run away. desperately, my father Is a disgusting individual and I can't say more than that, but I've been bringing up the idea of a job for months and when I had someone ask him away from me, "بتطلع من باب الدار علقبر"

my dad has tried to stab me before and my hand already has nerve damage.

yes I contacted family services b4. they are useful but I can't contact them again b4 wizari because I need the internet to study, I'm Familiar with the system and at 18 it'll suck terribly. Basically I'm forced to be financially dependent on him so I can't leave at all.

I don't know what to do at all and I'm genuinely lost. please give any advice because I thought getting a job would be easy but now my life is threatened and no one is on my side at all.

Hey where can a guy safely remove his body hair?preferably waxing, anybody know any salons or businesses that would do it without being judged?

why there is actually no good lesbian movies /series at all...?

like there are literally a lot of interesting things to make other than p@rn and auwful movies that are directed by men and targeting men only.

and i don't want anyone to be saying this movie is good that series is great because the best shit i have ever watched in my entire life is mostly men loving men WHY CAN'T LESBIANS HAVE THAT TOO?

انا fem twink و عمري ١٨، من لما بديت اتعرف على ناس هون و من تطبيقات تانيه من باب التعارف و الdating كل حد بوقع فيه بكون العن من اللي قبله ، اذا مش هورني بكون نرجسي و اذا مش نرجسي توكسك و بستغلني ، و اذا ولا واحد و طلع منيح بالاخير بطلع انه باخر الدنيا و بعيد عني ، و فعليا نادرا ما الاقي شخص تايبي كشخص انا ، و بس لقيته طلع فعليا اسوء انسان بعرفه بحياتي من جميع النواحي ، فالاشي مستفز و جد صعب و مرهق . Just wanted to rant nothing more

as a top I noticed that most bottoms prefer or tend to choose the "nonchalant" tops ( wich are usually just toxic f boys ) over the chalant tops , wich makes me wonder what is so bad about being a caring person and why do bottoms hate it ?

question for the bottoms : do you prefer a chalant or nonchalant top and why ?

Does anyone face this issue?, i tried turning on the vpn but its not working

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We should start supporting local bands more and im not talking about Jadal akher zapheer etc... im talking about small bands like DIYAM, SOKAJ, MAKELOW, and many many more. also looking forward to see (closeted) queer bands from jordan if youre planning to start a band then fking go🔥🔥

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