Dating Compatibility Scoring Matrix
Hey! I’m a data analyst and I implement data into all aspects of my life. I’ve had an idea and can’t find anyone who has done anything similar.
Most aspects of life have assessments and qualifying criteria, but not relationships. I want to create a matrix to score potential partners - the aim of this is to weed out incompatibility early.
It would be in a spreadsheet and all preferences would have a point attached to them, simplified example:
Has a hobby: +2 points
Cat person: +1 point
Has a cat/wants a cat: +2 points
Feminist (and enforces it): +3 points
Good fashion sense: +1 point
Unemployed (with caveats on this): -2 points
Drinks alcohol excessively: -4 points
Disparaging past partners: -10 points
Has anyone done this? All I can find is compatibility charts based on zodia signs or personality types.
I’m aware that this could be an unhealthy approach to dating. On the other hand, it could allow people to have a clear, objective viewpoint.
With the example above, red flags cause the person to lose many points so it’s harder to overlook things that could become an issue later down the line.
Let me know your thoughts, thank you!