AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? (update)
Thanks for all the comments everyone. I had no idea that the post would take off like that i read as many as I could. I just wanted to update you that the day I made the post, Emily blocked me on everything and tbh, I figured that might happen. LIke I said before, we were close but it wasn’t recently (middle school) and this kidn of felt like being roped into something.
I was fine w it and then came home to flowers and a note today. I wasn’t that freaked out bc I know a lot of oyu said she was threatening but she’s not going to actually do anything besides run a smear campaign. Her folks also own a couple of restaurants locally which I would think I am banned from but won’t go and find out.
The reason I’m not freaked out bc Abigail also sent me a DM and we ended up talking on the phone. She said it’s a lot more complicated what happened with her. But she was reassuring that she didn’t think Emily would actually do anything besides bad mouth me a lot. She said she might share her side of the story soon but was also considering letting sleeping dogs lie.
That’s the update. I’m just happy to be out of this and I feel supported by everyone. Thanks for understanding.