u/user007420

I feel afraid of talking to a girl or woman and I guess this is normal but it's been years I haven't managed to make any conversation with any female in my life. I never felt the confidence to talk to someone face to face, though talking to a stranger isn't a very good idea where I live but I'm not only talking about strangers but also the people who I know in general whom I could talk and get close to. this is the reason why nobody really knows about me. sometimes I think it's because of my appearance that makes me feel insecure to talk to them but it can't be always that right? I also find myself waiting for others to start talking but it never happened. so what it can be?

do you think it'd be a good match? I’ve never dated anyone before, but I’ve always been drawn to quieter people, unlike others who seem to prefer partners with very different personalities. personally, I feel like I’d connect best with someone similar to me. that said, it’s hard to really understand someone’s personality. so I’m curious what it would actually be like to be with an istj.