COOL (as in malamig) DATING SPOTS RECO + in need of adult tips about being sobrang antukin
Hello po! Believe me this is an adulting advice related post huhu.
Sobrang init these days kaya I want to take my GF somewhere na malamig for a date. Kahit hindi po exclusive na sa Manda lang ung location, okay lang din po. I just finished doing my long year thesis and super tinulungan niya ko to get through it so gusto ko sana bumawi, nakakatulog din ako madalas dahil sa pagod whenever we make plans sa bahay so please huhuhu help your girl out. Nag try na po ako tumingin sa tiktok kaso puro resto dun na mahal huhu.
Plus (ito na ung adulting part), sa mga super antukin like me na galing sa thesis, or may experience na similar po. How do you slowly make bawi to the people you love as an adult? Tbh hindi ko po kasi alam gaano katagal totoong nag rrecuperate dapat ang katawan. I've been living independently as a working student for more or less 5 years (arki po ako) and as a young adult, I find it hard keeping my promises lalo na sa gala or even simple promises na would require me to be physically present. One moment I'm very excited and may energy and then few minutes later mag sshut down nalang po bigla ung katawan ko to sleep and if I try hard not too parang nahihilo ako and nag papalpitate huhu. I don't wanna lose my GF dahil lang it seems like wala akong isang salita, when in fact sobrang hirap talaga gumising at maging functional.
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TLDR; Asking for a dating spot or activities na hindi mainit or may aircon, medj affordable (1-2k budget), sa anywhere. Need bumawi kay GF kasi she helped me go through my thesis. + Paano hindi antukin at magpahinga ng tama after thesis year at
more or less 5 years of being a working student.
Idk if it's okay po here to ask about this but advanced THANK YOU PO! 😭🙏