u/unfinishedbuttrying

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Hi, I’m 21F from India and I feel a bit stuck right now.

I prepared for NEET for 3 years but it didn’t work out. Now I’m in my final year of bachelors and planning to prepare for SSC exams so I can become financially independent.

My biggest struggle is consistency. I know what I need to do, but I procrastinate a lot and don’t follow through. I start things with good intentions but lose momentum.

My social life is also quite limited. I don’t really have close friends and I often feel lonely. My college experience hasn’t been great, so it sometimes feels like I missed out on a lot.

Lately, I’m trying to change things—starting small with daily study, building discipline, and improving how I communicate.

Just sharing this here in case anyone relates or has gone through something similar. Would appreciate any thoughts or advice.

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u/unfinishedbuttrying — 10 days ago