u/toilerpapet

I'm 26 (virgin). I have one friend that I've known for a few years and we hang out every few weeks but he's a really popular guy, so I'm probably only like his 100th best friend. I had a girlfriend in kindergarten and was popular in elementary school but it all went downhill after my family moved for middle school and I got stuck with the nerds and became a nerd by association. I missed out on all my formative years when I should have been talking to girls. Then in college I was locked in trying to get a good job and at least I succeeded in that aspect but now I'm just an adult loser with a good job.

The fundamental problem is I don't know how or where to meet people. I live in NYC and feel like everyone is having fun except me.