u/toastwiththemost03

Hi everyone! My 20-year-old sister just found out she’s 21 weeks pregnant. (I’m going to be an auntie!!)

I’m 22 and I live about an hour and a half away, so I’m trying to support her as best as I can from a distance.

I know this is ultimately her responsibility, but I still want to be there for her, especially since my parents didn’t take it well.

She doesn’t have anything prepared yet, and I want to help her get set up in a practical way. I want to plan a baby shower for essentials, but I know there’s more to think about.

I’d really appreciate advice on what she actually needs for a newborn, what we should be prioritizing first (like medical care and basic needs), any helpful programs or resources in PA.

Thank you so much!