u/suburbmama

My 4yo said he wants to play GUNS 🫣 Help me

Ok so my 4yo is really into Ninja turtles and now the 3 ninjas movie from the 90s. These in my opinion are not appropriate but these are my husbands favorite cartoon growing up and he intro it to our son without mentioning it to me. Ok fine. We said you can pretend to punch/kick the air and as long as you don’t hit/kick people you can watch Ninja turtles. He agreed. So far no issues. It’s been a couple of weeks. So we’re playing Ninjas today with pretend swords. It’s going great and then all of a sudden my 4yo said he wants to play guns!! I asked where he learned that from. He said preschool. I asked from who he said he made it up. Then he said he didn’t know. I didn’t know what to say so I said I don’t like guns and I don’t want to play guns. Let’s play ninjas and we’ll talk about guns later. He was upset. He wants to play guns and shoot people. I said what happens when you shoot? He said the people fall down. What do I say? I also don’t want him to feel like he can’t come to talk to me about guns if for any reason he comes a real one later. I want to teach safety and also the consequences but age appropriately. Any tips? TIA!

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u/suburbmama — 3 days ago

Stasher bag dupes?

Stasher bags are kind of expensive. Any good alternatives? IKEA has a 3 pack set and has good reviews. Any others I should look into? Or maybe there is some other type of food storage I should look at? I’m trying to replace our disposable ziploc bags for fridge and freezer. We use glass container for left overs but don’t have space to use glass containers for the freezer. TIA!

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u/suburbmama — 4 days ago

Ideal place to live?

Idk if I’m writing this correctly but is there such a place that is close to being clean/non toxic? Like cities that don’t use synthetic pesticides, no waste centers, sub stations, golf courses, flight path, oil drilling, farms, military sites? Is this a fantasy? lol I’m in Orange County Southern California. Does this place exist in California? If not then where? I want to explore our options. Thanks!

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u/suburbmama — 5 days ago