u/spike_spieg

Another thing I want to talk about to my therapist too. How do you guys not get hurt or offended when someone calls you stupid, ugly, dumb, fat, someone tells you to shut up etc? This has happened to me in the workplace and previous years of my life throughout school. This is another thing I want to work on and toughen up on. Any tips? Any tricks? Suggestions?

I mostly like Latinas, Black, and Asian women. But lots of people tell me like nobody likes us and we have no allies.Lots of people tell me even other Africans and Carribean don’t like us as well and I’m like damn should I let that stop me? Should I let that stop me from dating outside of my race? I’m 25 Black/African American 5’9 or 5’10. It’s just crazy to me that everyone hates us kind of depressing to me.