u/somberta — reddlx

I purchased this vintage jewelry box full of jewelry for $10 on Facebook Marketplace, and so far have found a substantial brass Trifari choker, this Coro rhinestone necklace, an unmarked moon glow link bracelet, and a Sarah Cov chain necklace that I’m not crazy about, but is in great shape. The beaded necklaces aren’t marked, but they’re so pretty! Also found a pretty unmarked brooch I’m considering my options for repair on.

Anyway, as the photos show, there are missing rhinestones. I’m seeing at least two shades, something like a Montana Sapphire for the darker and not sure for the lighter. I can’t settle on icy pale sapphire or aquamarine. There is no AB coating apparent on any of them.

I’ve been checking out Etsy and Mr. Stones, but I’m having difficulty settling on a match. Just wondering if anyone could take a peek and give me some advice. Thanks!

I’m in my 40s and was diagnosed at 30 during my laparoscopy after 15 years of severe symptoms. I was always told there is no known “root cause” of endo that’s known yet, but obviously it’s estrogen-mediated. As far as I know, the cause remains a genetic mystery that is still being investigated by researchers.

I have been on Mirena IUDs to reduce my period, and at one point, an oral contraceptive as well. I also have PCOS (diagnosed prior to the endo). Mirena causes painful ovarian cysts periodically, but nothing compared to endo pain (for me). I had a pre-sacral neurectomy during my lap and it significantly improved my pain, even with things like Pap smears.

I have been so confused by the profuse number of posts in this sub about not wanting to be on birth control but wanting a gyno to address symptoms. There are so many different types of hormonal birth control, and deciding on one is something your dr should be helping you do.

But I’m so confused about what the expectations are for management of a condition that is impacted by hormones, without the use of hormones. When a cure is not available, management is the goal. It sucks and isn’t glamorous, but it’s not the fault of the medical establishment. Surgery isn’t a cure, either. It was offered to me by my specialist when birth control and pain meds were not effectively managing my pain.

I will also say, although I understand this is not a US-centered sub, I find the timing of posts extolling this anti-contraception stance suspiciously in line with the goals of our blatantly misogynistic administration. Hormonal contraception isn’t perfect, but anti-pill propaganda is strong right now, everywhere online.

I know we deal with life-altering pain around our bodies because of this miserable disease. We are still vulnerable to misinformation. The best way to make decisions about your treatment is to find a medical team who treats endometriosis and listens to your specific concerns. Ask questions. Be sure you get answers that make sense to you.

I’m not here to get into a research debate, just to post my concern and confusion.