which elements are at play here?
lacks tactfulness, can be described as harsh and bossy at times
prefers honesty and truth; confesses her love in a “matter of fact” manner, openly asks people “am I getting on your nerves? answer truthfully so I can stop talking to you”, dislikes secrets and prefers if both parties lay their cards on the table.
feels intensely, but has issues naming the core feeling; tries to “solve” emotions, which leads to over analyzing them
processes feelings externally; talks about own emotions and expects others to solve them for her. oftentimes ends up rambling due to the inability to pinpoint the underlying feeling/situation bothering her.
not quite sensitive, but explosive (easily raises her voice, starts crying, bursts out laughing, etc.)
good at reading social cues, clueless about utilizing social norms. needs reassurance and clear “guidance” in most social situations.
has trouble engaging with strangers/acquaintances in a free, natural way.
when helping others, prefers to give practical advice (“do this and this”) rather then to empathize.
likes exploring her own preferences, interests, behavior and such patterns.
often knows what would be the most optimal thing to do but has trouble putting her plans into action
lacks an idea of what she is and isn’t “allowed” to do; who she can talk freely with, who she must tone down with, etc. which can make her come across as shy, withdrawn or disinterested
awkward movements, insecurity around physical matters
can get hysterical when someone interferes with her plans