u/shitthebeds

Absolutely devastating timing, six months ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, two months ago I was diagnosed with an incredibly rare and aggressive stage 4 cancer.

I also have a 12 year old son who's at an awkward age, next year will be his first year of high school.

How do I/ what can I prepare in advance for the betterment of my children after I am no longer alive. How can I make sure my baby remembers me and knows just how much she was and is loved.

How do I remind an angst filled pre teen that he was and is the greatest thing to happen to me.

My husband will do his best but he will also be grieving and looking after our baby and pre teen alone..