Sammy asking his wife “are you sure it’s an 8?” SEVEN DAYS after a C-section proves he has the emotional intelligence of a sock
I genuinely cannot get over the level of stupidity and audacity in that Snap. Your wife is ONE WEEK postpartum after major abdominal surgery — where they literally cut through layers of skin, tissue, muscle, and uterus to deliver a human being — and your response to her saying her pain is an 8/10 is:
“8? Really? I thought it’d be less than that…”
What planet is this man living on?
Women are expected to be up feeding a newborn every two hours, barely sleeping, bleeding, recovering from surgery, trying to walk properly again, dealing with hormones crashing, and somehow still managing the house and childcare — meanwhile this man acts shocked that she’s still in pain?
If Sammy had a paper cut, we’d never hear the end of it. But his wife has been literally cut open and he’s treating her pain rating like she’s exaggerating for dramatic effect. It’s so dismissive and gross.
And the worst part is he says it with that smug “I’m just asking questions” attitude instead of actually helping. Maybe instead of interrogating her pain levels, try picking up a vacuum, making food, changing nappies, cleaning something, or being useful for once. The bar is already underground and somehow he still can’t reach it.
The fact she even has to explain herself while recovering from a C-section is infuriating. She deserves support, rest, and basic compassion — not a man acting bewildered that major surgery hurts.
Absolute runt behaviour.
I hope he reads this and slaps himself.. 😤🤬