u/senseless2

I recently accepted an offer at a startup in the AI/data center space, but I’m having major second thoughts and want to back out.

The startup is offering a $12k base increase plus stock options. The tech is cutting-edge and the career growth potential is massive.

However, my current job has an amazing work-life balance. I work a 9/80 schedule, and the work is actually still pretty exciting, even if it’s a generation behind the absolute newest tech.

I have a family, and I’m terrified the startup grind is going to kill my personal life. $12k doesn't feel like enough to risk missing out on time with my spouse and kids.

Am I making the right call by backing out now before I start? How should I handle the conversation with the recruiter?