u/see-me-at-sunset

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Where to meet people

I, 28F, currently live in Carlsbad, and have lived in North County just about my entire life. Although recently I have been contemplating moving south just for the social scene. I’m at a stage where I feel like a lot of my good friends are getting married and/or moved away, and I’m still single. I am finding it difficult to meet new people in North County.

I do commute to work in central San Diego, and it really seems like North Park is the place to be. So I’m thinking about moving down there, but worried that I might be in the same situation (finding it difficult to make friends) I love the laid-back vibe of Carlsbad, and i feel as if North Park is quite the opposite. Thoughts??

I’m really looking to make some nice friend group, but also find a man that I can see a future with.

Also, any suggestions on making friends (north county or San Diego) or meeting other singles. I have seen people recommend Meet Up, although recently I have seen so many paywalls on the app, and it’s hard to tell if people are actually signed up.

I would love to join a walking group. Some of my other interests are, grabbing a coffee or a glass of wine, trying new restaurants, board games, the beach, Pilates/ other work out classes. Also interested in joining a dance studio (although I am trying to find one that has a nice adult community).

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u/see-me-at-sunset — 10 days ago